im worried my feelings arent strong enough

[pursuit-of-happiness]

I have been with my boyfriend officially for almost a month and met him about two months ago. There are times when I am very unsure of my feelings to the point where I don't even know if I like this guy, but then there are other times where I feel like i really like him. While there isn't always that spark when I kiss him it still feels really good. He is everything I would want in a boyfriend and takes care of me but maybe pays me a little too much attention sometimes. The sex we have is good but I don't crave it like I used to...I still want to have it though when he turns me on. I am not really sure if the way I feel is normal in the early stages of a relationship or not. Some things about him annoy me from time to time. I still feel like all the positives of him outweigh the negatives though. Any advice please??

[Aletheia*]

It sounds like the honeymoon stage of the relationship is over, and pretty quickly too. What you're feeling is normal. Of course there are going to be unsure feelings, especially because the relationship is so new. And, of course, there are going to be things about him that annoy you. After 3 years with my boyfriend, he can get under my skin but I love him so much that his flaws are something that have attracted to me.

You need to figure out quickly if these feelings are true or not. The longer you wait, the harder it's going to be on the both of you. Nobody likes to be lead on, which you would be doing if you didn't figure out where your feelings lie.