I don't know what to think

[Tigereyes]

Didn't know where else to put this, but basically I just started talking to this guy a few days ago and he's really nice and everything. He seems to be one of the few people that actually cares about me and accepts me for who I am. He also says things like that I'm pretty, bueatiful, really sweet, etc which makes me feel really good since no one's ever really said those things to me before except family members. Based on what he's said, I think he might like me but I'm not sure. I have no idea how to tell since I've never been in this sort of situation before. Also, I might like him but I don't know if it's just relief that someone actually cares and he's being friendly of if I actually llike him. I've never had a boyfriend or even liked anyone so I have no idea about any of this stuff. I might just be scared to like anyone after being abused in the past which has made it hard for me to trust people. I really don't know. Could someone please help me out here?

[Tess*]

It's very possible he likes you, but I have come across some guys that are just really nice and say those things just as a friend.
If you're not sure if you like him, you probably shouldn't do much else just yet. Work on figuring that out.
As for having trouble trusting people, that's totally understandable. If he's nice to everyone, responsible at work/school, and things like that, and if he has never given you a reason not to trust him, those are all good signs.
For now, I'd suggest getting to know him better.
If you decide you're interested in him, ask him out. If you're nervous about it you can try casually saying something like "would you want to try going on a date sometime?". The worst that can happen is that he says no and he probably wouldn't be rude about it.

[NewsFly]

I agree with Tess. Just take things slow... figure out who you are and who he is. There are some guys who are naturally nice like that, but they may or may not want it to go too far. Just because someone gives you compliments and is generally nice to you doesn't mean you and that person should be together (not to sound harsh >_< ).

I think us girls really get overwhelmed and excited that someone is giving us attention in ways we usually do not get it so our heart becomes involved and we believe it's love when it may or may not be. I think that's part of the reason why it's so important to know -who you are- and try to gather confidence in yourself...with that knowledge, you would easily be able to know who is right and wrong for you despite what others say about/to you.

[heys.wendy]

he likes you

[Nicole!]

Originally Posted by Tigereyes

Also, I might like him but I don't know if it's just relief that someone actually cares and he's being friendly of if I actually llike him. I've never had a boyfriend or even liked anyone so I have no idea about any of this stuff.

Usually, you will know for sure if you actually like someone. So for now, I think its just the relief that he cares. How do you feel when your around him? Usually signs of liking someone is to get butterflies or increased adrenalin when they are near, you think about them often, and you just want to kiss them So if you aren't sure if you actually like him, picture yourself with him. Would you be content?

[Tigereyes]

Well I definitely don't plan on dating someone I hardly know anytime soon. I haven't even actually talked face to face with him yet, just on facebook but he sits at my table at lunch. I do get butterflies and increased adrenaline whenever he chats me and at school because i'm wondering if he'll talk to me. I kinda tend to think about him a lot too. Also, another reason why I think he likes me is because he now calls me a princess, the prettiest girl in the school, etc and he asked me if I have a boyfriend or have had one, that he's surprised guys aren't fighting over me, and stuff about how I shouldn't be alone on Valentine's Day. I don't know, I'm probably reading too much into things but I know almost nothing when it comes to relationshiip stuff. I'm kinda scared by the whole thing in reference to myself. Again, I'm definitely not thinking of dating him anytime soon especially since I don't really know him well. But I really don't know...

[Nicole!]

Well, I would start asking him questions and get to know him a little better if you want to try and start a relationship since you like him. If not, then it may be best to tell him this so he doesn't get the wrong idea.