Am I being too clingy or forcing her?

[Crazykid43210]

So, here's this girl I've liked, sorry, loved like hell, from Grade 7. (I'm in Grade 11 now, BTW) She's had 'periodic crushes' on me, which I could tell from her staring and general behaviour towards me! Now, since 10th Grade, I don't know what changes have occurred in me, but none of my schoolmates, to whom I was a great friend, and had a special bond with everyone, do not talk to me anymore! All of them, guys and girls alike, have stopped talking to me all of a sudden! Anyways, getting to the topic, this girl's also one of them! Now, when she stopped talking all of a sudden, it was months after which I tried to text her...only to find that she did reply at first, but then, stopped all of a sudden! But, to all my other guy friends, she even texted first, but, she won't even reply to my texts! Then, one fine day,(Day before Yesterday, to be precise) I tried calling her several times in the day, but she didn't receive them, and when I texted her asking for the reason several times, she responded saying that she was busy! So, am I forcing her? Or do I try to make friends with her once again?
Also, I've seen many dudes who are simply 'ugly' to look at, have girlfriends, whereas, I (I am a little smart and a little nerdy), being better looking than 'em, can't get even a single girl to even talk to me, or start the conversation! WHAT THE HELL? Could anyone help me?

[Acheron]

Yes, you're being too clingy. Unless it's an emergency (and unrequited love doesn't count as an emergency), you call or text once and once only. You don't send another one until after she's replied.

[paranoidandroid]

I would limit my calls to one and my texts to two. After that, no more. If you said she's had periodic crushes on you I might wait for the next one, it doesn't seem like she's interested at the moment- could be for any number of reasons though, but it doesn't seem like she wants to express them, so just give her space. Focus on getting your closer friends realigned first because that will straighten your mind out and soothe your worries more. That will also give her time to come around. I wish you luck though! But the worst thing you can do to a girl who is troubled or not interested is be clingy. Just give her time, things may become clearer then.

[Aletheia*]

I'm going to agree with the others. Don't continuously call her because that IS being clingy, which isn't a good thing considering you aren't together in the first place, let alone great friends at this point either. You call or text once, and then leave it to her to answer. If she does, great. You can TRY to move forward with a friendship (which will be the first course of action). If she doesn't, MOVE ON.