Break ups

[JillyanRose]

So...im a lesbian.
Im twenty and have been dating the same girl for four and a half years. We fought this morning so left her. I left because she puts no effort into us anymore and she told me that I will never get all of her attention. I don't want all of it just some of it. Then she calls me bipolar crazy and I have no life. I feel broken and lost. I love this girl.

What am I suppose to do?

[Aletheia*]

Move on. If this girl isn't investing some any time in the relationship or YOU, it's pretty clear that leaving her was the right thing to do. It isn't fair to you that this relationship is one-sided, and while you were looking for a bit of attention from her, she thinks you want ALL of the attention. It sounds like there are some things in her life that are more important to her than the relationship you established together.

Take some time to be single. If she comes running back, the decision is entirely up to you whether or not you decide to see her again. However, it wouldn't be wise. Things may change for a while, but things will go back to the way they have been in no time, and I speak from experience. End contact with her so you can amply move on from this vicious cycle.