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Does This Make Me A Whore? - February 4th 2012, 08:25 PM

I think I like two guys.

I mean, they're completely DIFFERENT people. But I like them both. And I don't know... I'm just... I feel like a whore for it. Am I?
   
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Re: Does This Make Me A Whore? - February 4th 2012, 08:50 PM

Nope, there's nothing wrong at all with finding more than one person attractive.



   
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Re: Does This Make Me A Whore? - February 5th 2012, 02:19 AM

No, this does not make you a whore by any means. You can like more than one person at once. If I were you I'd figure out which guy you like more & then go for that one. Good luck (:




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Re: Does This Make Me A Whore? - February 5th 2012, 06:51 PM

People use the term 'whore' all too loosely. It's usually used when a girl sleeps around with too many guys whom she doesn't really care about.
You are definitely not a whore just for liking two guys. There is nothing wrong with being attracted to them both.



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Re: Does This Make Me A Whore? - February 5th 2012, 07:32 PM

I completely agree with the others. It doesn't make you a whore. In my personal opinion, and I think others will agree with me, the definition of a whore is someone who sleeps with multiple guys (and by multiple guys, I don't mean several partners over a few years. I mean LOTS of guys within days of each other). Not someone who has feelings for two people at the same time. I've had crushes on guys at the same time, no matter how alike or different they were. I just couldn't make up my mind on who I liked better. There is nothing wrong with it at all.











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Re: Does This Make Me A Whore? - February 6th 2012, 12:41 AM

Liking two people at once DOES NOT make you a whore.

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the definition of a whore is someone who sleeps with multiple guys (and by multiple guys, I don't mean several partners over a few years. I mean LOTS of guys within days of each other). Not someone who has feelings for two people at the same time.


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Re: Does This Make Me A Whore? - February 6th 2012, 01:01 AM

Liking two people at once does not make you a whore at all. Its perfectly normal and acceptable.


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Re: Does This Make Me A Whore? - February 9th 2012, 05:27 AM

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People use the term 'whore' all too loosely.
Very very true. Liking someone doesn't make you a whore. Pursuing both of them at the same time would, however. And when I say pursue, I don't mean just talking... if you catch my drift.
   
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Re: Does This Make Me A Whore? - February 10th 2012, 04:56 AM

no. not all all. I've been there.
   
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Re: Does This Make Me A Whore? - February 11th 2012, 01:37 AM

That's fine.

If you pursuing romantic and/or sexual relationships with both I may classify you as a "whore". But simply having two "crushes" at once is quite normal I assure you.

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Re: Does This Make Me A Whore? - February 12th 2012, 07:31 PM

Because the OP has gotten numerous responses all saying similar things, I am going to go ahead and close this.



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