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Advice/Confusion - February 5th 2012, 03:40 AM

So my ex texted me out of the blue saying she was sorry for everything (she broke up with me out of the blue and was rude about it). She wanted to be friends and I asked about us dating and her being interested in me and all and she said she always would be and wouldn't be against dating me in the future if it occured. So we texted as friends and she flirted/let me on, wanting to do stuff at her house and all. I offered a massage one day (use to always give her them) she replied no that she didn't want affection or emotion so I told her my feelings and she said she missed the times too but the bad outweighed the good. I told her we can't be friends and we both said goodbye. Then she texts me saying it saddened her and she would always care about me. We started texting again and she was flirting with me still and wants me to go running with her a couple times a week now. The flirting slowly stopped but we still go running. I asked if we could hang out sometime and she said only with other people as she didn't want mixed signals and that we only run and text on a friend level. She still has all the charms I have given her during our previous relationship and still wears them, she took one off which said something about love but she keeps it in her purse. What is going on?
   
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Re: Advice/Confusion - February 5th 2012, 07:27 AM

She needs a break. Give her lots of space. It could be that you won't get back together, but it's not something you can control.


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Re: Advice/Confusion - February 5th 2012, 02:11 PM

I wouldn't push anything on her. If she still has feelings for you, then she needs time to figure all that out herself. If you two can manage to be friends, then I would definitely consider doing that. But as for right now, back off & just enjoy being friends with her. Don't think too much about it or it'll constantly drive you insane. Good luck with everything (:




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Re: Advice/Confusion - February 5th 2012, 04:28 PM

Is there a chance anything will come from being friends with her or is any chance of having a relationship done with?
   
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Re: Advice/Confusion - February 5th 2012, 04:50 PM

Honestly, I can't say if anything will happen again or if you two will remain friends forever. I wouldn't wait on her, though. I mean have feelings for her, sure, because you can't help that, but don't miss out on being with someone else because you're expecting her to turn around and say she wants to be with you again.




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