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February 5th 2012, 10:09 PM
My academics team went to state this weekend. There's this guy and I really have had a crush on him, but he has a girlfriend who's one of my best friends.. He was sitting there saying that him and her are falling apart and then just looked at me.. and he said I really wanna kiss you. I said you wouldn't do that to her. And he said Watch Me. and kissed me.
I feel soo bad because I kissed him.. I don't know what to do. HELP. I feel so bad about myself. |
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February 5th 2012, 10:13 PM
It takes two to tango, and he made the move first. You shouldn't feel about this at all, but I know how you feel. I think you should tell your best friend what he did. She may get mad at you because he chose you to be the person he cheated with. However, letting her know how much of a jerk her boyfriend is worth much more than watching her continue to get hurt.
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February 5th 2012, 10:51 PM
I know you're feeling bad because in the back of your head you probably enjoyed it, and you would never want to hurt your friend. But he did make the first move, he did put himself out there, you never asked him to do that. I would definitely tell your friend as soon as you can. She needs to know what kind of a guy she's dating. She'll most likely be super pissed off but she has the right to know, especially from one of her friends. I know it'll be hard to do, although I think you know it has to be done. You're not a bad person, remember that.
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February 5th 2012, 11:12 PM
You're not a bad person. You didn't ask for him to kiss you, he did it on his own. Tell your friend as soon as possible, so she doesn't think you were trying to go behind her back. She'll be mad, but she'll be okay after a while.
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February 6th 2012, 02:14 AM
They've been together for so long, and have been through so much.
I don't know how I could. |
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February 8th 2012, 04:56 AM
It's only fair. You NEED to tell the truth. If you don't, you'll be stuck with this guilty feeling even though it isn't your fault. Your friend deserves to know what kind of guy she's dating because you might NOT be the first person he's done this with.
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February 8th 2012, 11:51 AM
Don't worry, sometimes when we want to do something, we just do it. He's the one in a relationship and who made the first move, so its mostly on him. But I agree you should tell your friend before she finds out from someone else. That's the only way to not feel guilty anymore.
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February 8th 2012, 07:06 PM
Take a deep breath, you can do this. I wish you the best of luck! Come back and let us know how it goes <3
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February 10th 2012, 12:15 PM
I am going to go ahead and close this since the OP's question has been answered. Ciara, feel free to make a new thread if you need or PM me to reopen this one
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