Female Advice Preferred: I like a girl, and she likes me, but her parents won't let her date, what do I do?

[SirMerick]

This girl is 16 years old, and will be 17 on may 22. I on the other hand am 14 and I will be 15 on march 20. We started texting and facebooking, and before we even met we were falling for eachother. I am a nice guy, and I don't want to be the cause of her getting in trouble with her parents. We have been talking and meeting for a little while now, but I don't know what I should do. I like her for her, and she likes me for who I am as well. Her parents don't want her to date, but in my defence, they haven't even given me a chance. I don't know what to do. Please help me!

[Risewiththefallen]

well maybe considering meeting up, so her parents can meet you?

[Chris.]

I think that its time you talk to her - and tell her that you maybe want to meet her parents. The only way they will trust you or respect you or give you a chance is if you meet them. Even after you meet them, they still will be alittle shaky about you - so you need to keep meeting them every now and again.

But ultimately, if they don't change there rules, that you and her are stuck with two choices:
To either disobey the rule, or to follow it.



Best wishes,
Chris

[Aletheia*]

I'd suggest meeting her parents as well. Maybe after meeting you, they'll see you differently. However, that IS if they comply with the meeting. They might not. If so, you'll just have to wait until she's of the age to make decisions on her own without her parents influence (18, to be exact).

[Nicole!]

If her parents don't trust you meeting her, its because they don't know you yet. I would also agree to meet her along with her parents, that way they can meet you and see what a great guy you are, and they will feel better knowing their daughter will be safe because they will be with her.

[Hollifire]

I also agree with arranging a meeting with her parents. Maybe if they see how nice of a guy you are, they may consider letting her date you. You have to be prepared though if they still decide against it. What's the harm in asking to meet them, ya know? Let us know what happens (: