not sure of my feelings

[pursuit-of-happiness]

I dont know if I like my boyfriend enough because I go back and fourth all the time! I know its weird how sometimes I feel like I REALLY like him and then other times im like ehh...I dont think I do. We are physical and it always feels good but certain things he does bother me. Like the way he walks and talks. But there are also things I really like about the way he is. I dont know what to do and I want to stop feeling so unsure. I miss him when I dont see him or talk to him and I want to call him when were apart. We have only known each other for about 2 months. Any insight?

[Aletheia*]

Like any guy you meet, there will be things that you don't like about your significant other. I've been with my guy for 3 years, and there are some things I absolutely hate, but the things I love over run the things I don't like.

Now, you'll need to figure out your feelings quickly. If you let this continue, and you're still unsure of your feelings, you could be potentially leading him on, which isn't fair. It's pretty simple: either you like him or you don't. This is something you'll need to figure out so neither one of you get hurt in the long run.

[Hollifire]

If you keep flip flopping with how you feel for him, I think that's a huge indicator right there. Of course there's things you won't like about him, no one's perfect but the big thing here is if the good things about him overcome the bad ones. Possibly make a list of all his good qualities & bad ones and see which one there's more of. I'd definitely do this as quickly as possibly because if you do indeed decide that you don't wish to be with him anymore, you should end the relationship as soon as possible to avoid more hurt. And if you decide you really do want to be with him, then good for you (: Either way you go, you're not a bad person, remember that.