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question for thought - February 8th 2012, 02:46 PM

How do you know if you are in a relationship for the right reasons?
   
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Re: question for thought - February 8th 2012, 02:59 PM

when you can't even think of any wrong reasons?



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Re: question for thought - February 8th 2012, 03:09 PM

I agree. Basically, if you have to ask that question, your current relationship might not be what you wanted, what you expected, what you thought, etc. When your in a relationship with someone, it feels right. It doesn't feel forced or anything like that. Everything comes easy, and you'll KNOW that your in it for good reasons, or the right reasons.











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Re: question for thought - February 9th 2012, 12:04 PM

Well you don't really know you just kind of... feel it. Honestly, matters of the heart are a slippery slope so you just have to jump in and feel it out for yourself. Generally speaking, if you're in a good relationship the thought doesn't cross your mind. If you're in a relationship right now and find yourself asking this question, you might want to closely examine your relationship. Hope this helps!
   
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Re: question for thought - February 9th 2012, 01:51 PM

As others have said, you just feel it. It feels right and good, and you don't question if you're in the relationship for wrong reasons.


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Re: question for thought - February 10th 2012, 12:13 PM

Well, why are you in the relationship? If you're both in it because you honestly love each other, then you're in it for the right reason.
I basically agree with everyone else.



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Re: question for thought - February 13th 2012, 12:03 AM

Everyone has their own reasons and you need to know what yours are. If you don't them or the relationship doesn't feel right then perhaps you shouldn't be in a relationship.


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