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Angry Too nice but a bad taste in girls - February 9th 2012, 04:43 AM

So there is this guy at my school named Peter. He is the nicest kid I know, loves music as much as I do, and is funny, and sweet. I have had a crush on him since sophmore year, when my friend was dating him. My friend broke up with him sophmore year. He and i have always been good friends and I realized my feelings for him were more than just friendly when on our band trip to DC he and I spent the entire day walking through the Smithsonians together juat the two of us. He even came into the 1st lady's dress exhibit with me.
However I was stupid and I started to date another guy, who I broke up with after 3 months, and Peter started to date another girl. Her name is Karina. She is the most rude, loud, and witchiest person I know. Trust me my opinion of her has always been this way. She is off in another state for college and honestly I doubt she is being faithful to him just due to her past history with other booyfriends.
Now this leaves me and Peter in HS with 4 classes together and me wishing that he would break up with her or srop being so sweet and friendly twoards me. I can't determine wether I should just try to be friendly and try to suppress my feelings for him, ignore him because I should respect Karina as being his girlfriend, or if I should say something to him, which would be very out of charecter for me.
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Re: Too nice but a bad taste in girls - February 9th 2012, 06:08 AM

That's tough. I been there and can say that first off, it usually doesn't last between a college student and a high school student; it's only a matter of time. That being said, I think that you should just wait it out. If him being sweet to you makes things difficult or uncomfortable for you simply because you want more, try to distance yourself a little bit from him until something between and the girlfriend he has changes. If he notices the distance, explaining why only makes sense. Hope this helps!
   
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Re: Too nice but a bad taste in girls - February 9th 2012, 06:27 AM

Considering the fact that your friend is still in a relationship with this girl, I'd suppress your feelings until he becomes single. As the person above me said, a relationship rarely works between a college student & a high school student. Both parties are in different places in their lives. So, I'd just wait it out. It doesn't mean it's forever.











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