okay, crush + ex help?

[MidgetInUnlove]

okay so there's this guy i really like, ive liked him for a while and a few months ago i told him, and he laughed. then i thought i got over him but i havnt every night i dream of him but we only talk over text well kinda i mean we talk in class a few times and we've had those silly little things but i think he's flirting but i dont know... arrhh
and just before i told me ex i missed him. and my reply was ' its not awkward but i do think wa better as frends' but yeahh ive loved that guy almost 12 year and last year he kinda broke it a little...

any advice for a teenie crush?

[Aletheia*]

I'm kind of confused on what you're asking, so maybe a little more clarification is needed? I'm going to do my best to answer from my understanding so far, so if anything is incorrect, please let me know.

With your crush: If you told him and he laughed, he doesn't share those feelings for you. He just sees you as a friend, or just another acquaintance. You REALLY need to move on from this because if he doesn't like you, there is no point hanging onto something that isn't going to work. So, that being said, you should end contact with him so you can move on completely. Remaining in contact is stopping you from moving on completely, so I think it's best if you stop texting each other, and only speak to him when it's absolutely necessary.

With your ex: If you feel your better off as friends, that's where it should stay. If he's done things in the past to hurt you, a second time around with a relationship might not help that.

I think you need to take some time and be single, and figure out exactly who you are, and to move on completely from both of these guys.

Take care.