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Join Date: March 7th 2009
Re: girlfriend and the phone -
April 29th 2009, 08:53 AM
I would honestly set aside some time to talk about this issue specifically. Tell her you want to find a way of managing your phone time because, although you enjoy talking to her, you still feel as though you need your personal time and space. There's nothing wrong with needing a little bit of me-time and she needs to be open to accepting this. Come to a compromise with her. Decide where your boundaries are and suggest them to her. Have her suggest her own ideas and perhaps find a way to combine the two that will work for the both of you. Just be honest, straight-forward if at all possible. Making up excuses will only serve to hurt her further when she finds out, and she will (they always do). So be open about it.
Originally Posted by Silverstar
thanks jake. im just having trouble finding a time to say this