I dont think its society. I really enjoy sex, but only with my current boyfriend. I had sex once, at 15, with a boy id been with for 4 years. That made me feel violated, and am now a true believer in being ready, and making sure you are emotionally and mentally. Its important. However much you love someone, or however long you've been together is irrelevant.
Secondly, though, ive just started my second year councelling course, and i am very interested in victims of abuse. My best friend was abused, and it was horrifying to see how it affected her through the rest of her life, in so many different ways. I want to help find a way to stop that...sorry, i rant :P
Anyway, if you want someone to talk too, PM