[Lil-x]

I can really see how much you love this woman, but I must say, you didn't deserve that poor, poor, treatment. Nor stress in your life. Like others have said, I utterly believe in second chances. However, you provided this woman with more chances than any one person could deserve.

You gave her love and support when she most needed it, and truly did your best to make her happy. What did she give you in return? A stab in the back and friends accounts of her various fucks?

People always say this, but I honestly believe you can do better than this. I mean that last comment was completely un-provoked and yet, she just wanted to see you hurting. I have been through similar situations, and If you ever do find yourself wondering whether to take someone back, max on 3. Seriously.

I'm sorry, but she walked all over you and tried to squeeze whatever se could out of your relationship, and yet you never did that. You showed her only love. I believe she is self-centred and selfish. I speak for all women when I say, you were just unlucky.

I'm sorry things ended like that. It is entirely her fault, do not place any of this on you.

I too am relieved you have got out of this situation, loving people are out there for you. Although as a kind, sensible person, you wouldn't consider jumping into another relationship right away or sleeping around. Don't stoop to her level.

Good luck, keep us posted.

xx