Rejected? Or am I overreacting? -
September 7th 2009, 10:29 AM
I've been "seeing" this girl from my workplace, which is an understatement because I've only been to the movies 3 times with her outside of work(only once did we go alone and not with 3 others).
The thing is, we're both kind of social idiots. Me because I'm anti-social, and her because she never makes much time to "get a life". Of course, that might be sort of a good thing as it's the only reason why a pretty girl her age is still single(even at 18 years old).
Now though, I kind of get the feeling that she's been avoiding me. The last two weeks I tried to get together with her, but she's always been "too busy". Just today at work she said that she was tired from playing tennis all morning with "a friend". I would just figure that if you liked someone and wanted to be more than "just friends", you might prioritize them first and try to make some time for them.
My guess is that she found another guy she likes better, and that was "the friend" she was with. She doesn't really go out of her way to try and socialize with me outside of work, and whenever it seems like it might happen, at the very last minute it's cancelled because of a sudden change in plans.
Am I just being bounced off? Or is my imagination just wildly shooting off on a tangent here?
"I am the shadow cast by the light of science."