Re: Best friend and Ex... -
January 7th 2009, 11:11 AM
I can totally feel both of you and your best friend point of views. Some one I knew did the same thing to me :[ and we were really close and I know it sucks, and you'll feel it hurt for a long time. The best you can do is look at things in a different light. Sure, you're best friend is dating your ex, but try to see it this way. If she's in college, and he's not or even if he is there isn't a great chance they're going to make it through anyways.
She'll be too busy with school to see him and such.
So if it makes you feel better to think that way, do it. Sure, she's in love with him- maybe, but distance is hard especially when there are so many people that can coax him into cheating.
Even if you loved this guy before, it doesn't mean things aren't going to get better. The heart may never lie, but all wounds heal. Try to look at this guy you have, and instead of seeing your ex, see this guy as being the first and only person there. It's hard, I'm living it right now too. But, once you learn how to accept some one whole heatedly, there's no room for grief left over from some one else.
Please take care and if you need anything don't hesitate to IM me :] I have like ALL the messengers xD
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