[losing touch.]

with regards to coming out to your dad, i know you've said that he hasn't noticed.. but are you sure about this?. because me may already have a pretty good idea that you're trans.. i think it would be good to tell him, but maybe hold off until you've at least had the first meeting with this therapist.. i'm sure they'll be able to give you some valuable advice as to how best to deal with your dad and any other issues you're facing. good luck with it!