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Re: Am i being abused? - February 27th 2010, 07:26 PM

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Originally Posted by The Kira View Post
I cant really tell an adult, my mother wouldnt understand about my bf, let alone his friends. They are the type of people she would call "a bit on the wild side". She has "forbiden me " to date until the age of 17, which I think is stupid as hell.

But telling my bf would spoil the friendship and I dont want to be a burden. He is overprotective and, I mean, i like that but I would feel terrible if his friendship would be ruined because of me...
You are 14yrs old so this guy will use that to his advantage. To me your mother's advice is sound in order to protect you and make sure you grow well, so i suggest you follow it and secondly hanging around this group of friends doesn't seem like a good idea based on your mother's description. So don't stay with this group. And also if things continue you should tell your boyfriend.

On second thought after reading your most recent response, I am on your mother's side. Perhaps you should leave this group.


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Last edited by Jacksonian; February 27th 2010 at 07:28 PM. Reason: addition