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She's treating me terribly. - March 1st 2010, 02:35 AM

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Okay. So me and my girlfriend broke up about a month and a half ago. Everything was okay for awhile, it was a forced break-up that neither of us wanted, so we would still say we loved each other and stuff when we talked. Then she started getting weird. Told me she didn't love me anymore and wanted "cock" ( we are both girls,) which I later found out from a friend she just made up to hurt me. Ever since then I wouldn't say I loved her anymore, and anytime we talked (which wasn't often) it was just platonic, boring conversation. Then a few days ago I asked her advice on something my counselor told me, and she blew up at me. Told me to bother someone else because she couldn't "f-ing fix it." I hadn't wanted her to fix it, just wanted to talk to it about someone I trusted. Ever since then, she's been cussing me out constantly. Says that all I do is "whine about how bad my life is." She also said I'm a stalker freak that no one wants to talk to. I'm 18 and she's 14, but that never bothered us when we were together, and we had a great relationship, never fought or anything. The reason we had to break up was because of her parents.
Really, I don't understand why I'm getting this treatment from her. I never did anything she's accusing me of, and only ever tried to make her happy. She even specifically told me we could be friends before this started.
I would love some advice. Did I do something wrong? Because I can't understand her behavior.