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Originally Posted by NightOfNyx
To you, sex is nothing but sex. But that's the point, really - I want sex to mean something more than it does to most people. I want it to mean a devotion to the one person I love more than anyone else in the world. I want it to be a promise and a symbol that I will love this person eternally. I believe that in saving yourself for marriage, sex has a deeper meaning. To me, sex has been turned into a commercial, unimportant thing. I want it to mean more than that to me, and that's the reason I refuse to have sex before marriage.
Sex is not meant to be meaningless, and to me it is a shame that it has been turned into an unimportant act. I don't believe this simply because my faith tells me so, I believe it because sex will mean a lot more to me if I save it for that one person I know I'll be bound with forever. It is much more romantic and special that way, and that's how I want it.
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Sex and making love are too different things, though. Just because you've had sex without the whole devotion thing doesn't mean you can't have that too. Making love I find generally more enjoyable than sex so I do get your point, but you know even within a marriage or serious relationship I wouldn't want it to always be making love because it would get a little vanilla. But yes making love is wonderful. I hope you do get to experience making love as your first time, I did, and I'm so happy my first experience was not sex.
I don't know if that made a whole lot of sense, but eh.