[falling_x]

Perfectly normal ...

If you've spent ages before it thinking about it and getting yourself "wound up" about it then when the time comes, part of you is gonna be like "I don't want to do this" or just gets so worried and tense about it that its not going to happen.

Yes, lube does help if you have any doubts ... it will not only help him go in ... but will also help lessen the pain. I would at this point say that if you decide to try again, and it hurts as much again, go to the doctor's ... just to be on the safe side ... but use the lube!!

First times never work out the way you want them to ... but the pain is quite possibly just the hymen breaking ... as for the oral and you not liking it ... it's normal ... not everyone does like it... I don't like it all the time ... and i like it more with some guys than with others ...

I learnt that you can't really plan your first time ... it just kindda happens ...

Hope this helps a little
falling