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Re: Becoming a Surrogate Mother - March 15th 2010, 08:07 PM

I think it is great that you would do this for your sister.

As for me, I do not think I would be a surrogate. Honestly, I am not a very good pregnant person. It is not that I have had trouble in the past - aside from one miscarriage - but it is hard on me because I stress too much. My son is healthy, and hopefully my next child will be too. But being pregnant brings on a whole new set of worries. And as Amy mentioned, there are risks involved. And I can't take the risk of leaving my children without a mother either.

So, my answer is no to being a surrogate. But then again, no one has ever came to me with that proposition. I have family that has not had successful pregnancies and in fact lost two children they gave birth to. But they adopted 3 children, and I think that is amazing. So, I do not think I would ... but you can never be 100% sure without personal circumstances.


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