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Originally Posted by iDream
Everyone is saying no, but I don't think it's that much of a horrible thing. I lost my virginity to my best friend, and I don't regret it at all. It probably helped that the two of us actually had feelings for each other at the time. We're still really good friends even though we're not together, but maybe we're just lucky?
So many people say that they regret the person they first had sex with and it's usually because they thought they were in love with the person then they turned around and broke their heart somehow. My logic was that I'd rather lose it to someone I trusted and cared for me rather than someone who could so easily leave my life.
After everything, the decision lies on you. Do you think you'll end up regretting your decision to lose your virginity to her if/when you two go separate ways?
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This is the post I most agree with.
I knew I didn't have a future with the guy I lost my virginity too. But he cared about me, I cared about him. We were best friends. We were in a relationship at the time but I just knew it had an expiration date. I still wanted to share my first time with him. I think the person you should have your first time with should be someone you trust completely, someone you know will always care for you and vice versa, even if you don't think you''ll always be together.