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Re: Sort Of Messy Situation...help? - March 21st 2010, 05:31 PM

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Originally Posted by AlmostHeaven View Post
Well that is a little messy, honestly though, if you dont want to go out with her i wouldnt suggest doing anything els with her because you dont want to lead her on and you def dont want to get confused feelings for her! One of my best friends and i hooked up (and this was my first hook up) on halloween. Since i had shared one of my real first sexual experiences with him it made me feel like i liked him but the truth is, i didnt! I just felt an attachment to him because of what we shared. She might be amazing in bed but are you sure you feel the same way about her that she feels about you? I think you a need a little time before you decide what your feelings are because i was lead on and trust me it hurts :P
Well, the thing is I think that I do want to go out with her, but I just don't want to make the wrong decision. Like I really feel like I like her right now, but I really had a rough relationship and I'm not over that yet...I don't want to end up in another rough relationship is all. But you are totally right, I don't want to lead her on at all! I keep telling her tht I am not ready for a relationship right now and she keeps saying "well, when and if you are ready...I'm here." I see no harm if I do end up going out with her, but if I don't end up going out with her then there's A LOT of harm that could possibly come from it.


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