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Originally Posted by TheNumber42
I think that you sound very confused and overwhelmed and the best thing you could do is to entirely forget about dating for awhile. Have fun being single, it's not a bad thing or a punishment. Especially when you're so confused and overwhelmed by relationships, it can be much more enjoyable to spend time with friends, find new hobbies and just relax without the pressures of a relationship.
And in the future, when you feel more ready, then you can try out a relationship and it will be so much better because you will be ready for it.
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What I have been thinking of trying once i get out of my stressful state is to possibly ask her one more time a while from now of she would like to start really slow with stuff like hanging out and occassional dates and stuff. Would this be such a bad idea even with little doubts? Will it make me come to a more decisive answer of what I want? Is this hurting either of us by doing this?