Re: he didn't even TRY to please me... -
April 24th 2010, 06:21 AM
My boyfriend has done this a few times. Though usually he has intentions of pleasing me but he sometimes likes to take turns if we're not having sex. Which is fine but when he goes first he's usually too tired to get me off afterwards.
You need to sit him down and talk about it. Tell him it takes two to tango and if he isn't willing to make sure you're enjoying yourself as well, he can just use his own hands.
I know how it feels. My problem is that I go down on my boyfriend more often than he goes down on me (and i know for a fact, since i did it to turn him on, that I taste 100 times better than he does) so I brought it up and the next time we did something sexual, he immediately went down.
So talk to him about it. If you already have, then stop if he does this again. Get up and walk away if he does the same stuff next time (or starts to do this if you suspect he did it just so you would shut up or something) and just avoid sex until he gets the picture.