Re: Achieving Orgasm -
November 28th 2010, 11:18 PM
I'll keep this sort a sweet for you! The pressure that your boyfriend, and you, are putting on yourself is going to make it near impossible for you to be able to achieve orgasm. You need to relax about it, not think about it and let it happens when it wants to, don't force it. (I know it sounds silly).
The most important thing is that you allow yourself to orgasm through masturbating on your own. If you can't make yourself orgasm, how can you expect anyone else to? I know you say you've tried, and that's really good of you. But you just need to keep trying. Do different things, relax yourself. And you could even try 'aids'. Use some sort of sex toy, if you're comfortable with that, and see if you can achieve orgasm that way.
Most of all, just be relaxed about it. It'll happen in time, just experiment and try new things. It'll happen, take care.