Re: She's coming back o.O -
August 3rd 2011, 04:23 PM
(just read your other post)
First of all, this friend of yours isn't a real friend, you see that? She teased you, she was unkind and obviously she bullied you into thinking you were fat.
I really think you should not care what she thinks. But I believe you should be kinder to your body. Anorexia is a deadly desease, you know that, and nobody has ever gained anything from starving themselves to death.
Let me tell you about a problem I have: when I was your age, I was quite skinny. Growing up, I started putting on weight. My father would tease me on every occasion and I woul consider it normal - he bullies my mother even worse. For years now I think I am too fat while others around me try to cnovince me I look totally ok. But I don't feel ok. Sometimes I wish I was anorexic. You see, my family hardly ever sees me eating. I try to avoid eating with them because it makes me feel fat. But I still eat. And not healthy enough. And I still haven't lost the fight. The fight that started when my father told me I was fat.
What I want to say with that? If you want to do something, do it for yourself alone. Stop listening to this friend of yours and think what you want to look like in 10, in 20 years. Eat. Eat healthy and try to keep the shape you are now. You are obviously skinny enough. Don't make the mistake of starving yourself - it doesn't get better. Indeed, it only gets worse.
Good luck and keep us posted!
Last edited by belle.darcy; August 3rd 2011 at 04:33 PM.