Originally Posted by Pisces
Yes, it is love. It is their way of showing that yes they care.
See all those dads who don't pay anything after divorce. Its their way of showing that they don't give a damn. Then there are dads who do pay regularly. Its their way of showing that yes they care.
Take my case only, my dad (living with us only right now) he tries to escape every situation when he's asked for money. And my mom she's the one who makes him shell out money so that she can save her own earnings for our future, for when that insecure man finally has the guts to move out or we lose patience and kick him out.
Now if my mom tells me that she hates me and my dad tells me that he loves me, should I believe any of them? Don't their actions speak louder than their words?
For me, their money is not enough evidence showing love. I would rather have poorer but more caring parents.