Join Date: October 31st 2011
re: Female Advice Preferred: Reconstruction -
April 8th 2012, 02:44 PM
Like others have said, straight forward communication would be a wonderful way to approach! You and her dont want to accidentally fall into another mind game on "who is going to make the move".it'll eat at both of you until someone finally does, which might happen in an uncomfortable way.
Just full out, straight forward, ask her where does she think the relationship is going. Tell her your fears about moving too fast and too slow: how you don't want to pressure her into anything and you are ready to go whatever speed she wants. Initanating this honest strong communication might atually make your bound stronger and make her want to be more honest with her feekings. I know it can be scary to bring up such a topic, but it'll be worth it. at least you won't have to second guess yourself and fall into the trap of mind games again.
With wooing her, doing cute little romantic things that make her feel beautiful and show how you care can help a lot. Like holding the door open for her, sending good morning texts, maybe surprising her with a wflower every so often or a cupcake from her favorite bakery. You don't necessary have to do any of this thing specefically, just something with your own spin to it to show how you personally care about her. I know doing so would make her heart flutter like crazy
I hope everything works out with you! Be happy to pm me anytime you have questions/ect!
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