[ellabelly]

when women have sex, the processes of losing your virginity is much more mental than it would be with a man. meaning, women know what women want. we don't NEED a dick to have sex, legit sex.

there's two different kinds of virginity, mental and physical.
if your hymen is popped, physically you are no longer a virgin [and that can happen by fingering! it can actually happen by intense sports lol]
once you have let yourself be completely vulnerable, in a good way, with someone else [ie: seeing them naked or them you], mentally, you are no longer a virgin.

that's my opinion :]

LOVE!
ella