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Forum: Hairstyling August 17th 2011, 09:52 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 911
Posted By CageCardinal
Hair Dye - Damaging/unsafe?

Hello :)

I've been dying (heh) to try one of those temporary hair dyes but I'm a little anxious. I bought Clairol's natural instincts hair dye at a Shoppers Drug Mart in the wintertime and I...
Forum: LGBT, Sexuality and Gender Identity February 27th 2011, 01:05 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,198
Posted By CageCardinal
Dude, what's a gaydar and how do I get one?

Because I've been aware of my...not being straightness for the past four/five years and my gaydar hasn't seemed to improve very much from what it was before. Last year it was so bad that this lesbian...
Forum: Friends and Family February 26th 2011, 03:37 AM
Replies: 6
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): I don't know how to talk to people.
Views: 991
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: I don't know how to talk to people.

Haha! Well maybe I'll fare better in university. I thought i wasn't so unbearable to be around...but for some reason I just get so paranoid when I'm in this big room full of people. I don't know how...
Forum: Friends and Family February 26th 2011, 02:42 AM
Replies: 6
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): I don't know how to talk to people.
Views: 991
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: I don't know how to talk to people.

It's not strange to just ask someone to hang out one on one even if you've only talked a few times? And yes you are so right about these dramatic people. They surround me everywhere...holy hell. I...
Forum: Friends and Family February 26th 2011, 02:21 AM
Replies: 6
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): I don't know how to talk to people.
Views: 991
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: I don't know how to talk to people.

Well it is true that there are always tons of people around and it's fairly hectic. But that shouldn't make it impossible to hold conversations, right? I mean if other people can do it...why can't I?...
Forum: Friends and Family February 26th 2011, 01:19 AM
Replies: 6
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): I don't know how to talk to people.
Views: 991
Posted By CageCardinal
I don't know how to talk to people.

I have no idea if this is in the proper category. I apologize if it's not.

I thought I was getting better at opening up and making friends but I feel like I'm becoming more and more isolated....
Forum: Relationships and Dating December 21st 2010, 04:09 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 551
Posted By CageCardinal
Immaturity and doubts

First thing's first, the age difference between this guy who likes me is two years. He's fourteen and I'm sixteen. Unfortunately, I'll be turning seventeen in the Spring and he'll be turning fifteen...
Forum: Relationships and Dating December 20th 2010, 12:38 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 508
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: One on One

YES! Ah thank you! I thought there was something wrong with me...it's just because I can sometimes have trouble with conversations. I'd sit in silence with someone if I could but the other person...
Forum: Relationships and Dating December 19th 2010, 06:49 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 508
Posted By CageCardinal
One on One

I don't know if this makes me socially awkward...but I don't enjoy hanging out with groups. I get anxious and feel left out and neglected because everyone always has to talk about something I don't...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings November 21st 2010, 12:39 AM
Replies: 5
Triggering (SH): Tattoos
Views: 1,225
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: Tattoos

*chuckle* Well i haven't thought too much about it yet seeing as I've got a fair wait. I really really love Harry Potter, since I was six years old, so I'm contemplating getting something related to...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 9th 2010, 12:42 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,068
Posted By CageCardinal
Girls asking out guys without knowing them well?

Right so first of all I'll let you know I've never had a relationship...I had a long distance relationship with a chick that didn't last all that long really. Yes I swing both ways :P

I'm...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings November 7th 2010, 09:37 PM
Replies: 5
Triggering (SH): Tattoos
Views: 1,225
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: Tattoos

To WhoAmI: Thank you for sharing and support. :)

To Chess: The reason I posted it in self harm was because I wanted people who have experiences with self harm to reply to my topic. I'm not sure...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings November 7th 2010, 03:53 AM
Replies: 5
Triggering (SH): Tattoos
Views: 1,225
Posted By CageCardinal
Tattoos

I think I've seen a thread like this and I apologize for the redundancy! I cannot find it so I thought I would make a new one.

Stopping self harming for good seems extremely overwhelming to me....
Forum: Self Harm November 7th 2010, 03:46 AM
Replies: 18,949
Views: 462,629
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: Self harm free!

Remember remember the fifth of November

I made new cuts in late October which I've been reopening often, and the last time I reopened was the fourth of November, and the fifth of November was my...
Forum: Self Harm October 27th 2010, 02:48 AM
Replies: 5
Triggering: Beautiful...red...
Views: 725
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: Beautiful...red...

The only thing I'm worried about is forgetting. I'm extremely absent minded and I zone out a lot...so hopefully I can just make a habit of bringing something red with me.

Also, I have a question....
Forum: Self Harm October 27th 2010, 02:41 AM
Replies: 66
Views: 3,034
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: Music in my heart 120 - alter Ashley here please ! help'?

Look, I can't be sure of anything. No one knows for sure. But there are many, many stories of people who have survived and freed themselves of self harm...just look at the self harm free thread. I...
Forum: Self Harm October 27th 2010, 02:37 AM
Replies: 5
Triggering: Beautiful...red...
Views: 725
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: Beautiful...red...

Thanks. I saw after I posted this...

Erm, but what if you can't access any of those things? I was outside when it happened. I had no make up. There was no paint or markers or anything for a long...
Forum: Self Harm October 27th 2010, 02:35 AM
Replies: 66
Views: 3,034
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: Music in my heart 120 - alter Ashley here please ! help'?

Okay keep up the good work. Just do your best. We can do this, you're not alone, I'm stuck too but I'm working for the day when I don't need blood or pain anymore. I don't know when that day will...
Forum: Self Harm October 27th 2010, 02:23 AM
Replies: 4
Triggering (SH): i started...
Views: 670
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: i started...

That is flawed logic...you have to take responsibility for your own actions. Weed can be put to good use, but if you abuse it, then that's not because "god put it here," it's because you made that...
Forum: Self Harm October 27th 2010, 02:17 AM
Replies: 66
Views: 3,034
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: Music in my heart 120 - alter Ashley here please ! help'?

You can, of course you can. You can do anything you want to. If it hurts enough, why hurt more? You've got to be your own friend. Of course, I haven't been able to do that for myself lately, so I...
Forum: Self Harm October 27th 2010, 02:06 AM
Replies: 66
Views: 3,034
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: Music in my heart 120 - alter Ashley here please ! help'?

I relapsed a few days ago. Let me tell you something, I've been hiding it from everybody and I'm already suffering from stess and this makes it a fuckload worse.

PLEASE do not hurt yourself...
Forum: Self Harm October 27th 2010, 01:56 AM
Replies: 5
Triggering: Beautiful...red...
Views: 725
Posted By CageCardinal
Beautiful...red...

Most people cut or self harm for the pain, for the release, to "punish" themselves I find. But this isn't true for me.

While it does help me release stress and punish myself...above all I do it...
Forum: Friends and Family June 28th 2010, 05:01 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 701
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: This girl's headed to a wreckage and I can't be the one to stop her.

All right. She's been a bit calmer these past few days, not calling for me as much so I'm hoping that's a good sign. I've promised we'll catch up sometime soon when my schedule allows but it's...
Forum: Goals and Ambitions June 23rd 2010, 03:23 AM
Replies: 352
Views: 33,370
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: what do you want to do before you die?

1. Not be alone.
2. Be comfortable with myself.
3. Do something truly great for the benefit of others.
Forum: Friends and Family June 23rd 2010, 03:00 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 701
Posted By CageCardinal
Exclamation This girl's headed to a wreckage and I can't be the one to stop her.

So I made a post in another board that actually talked about her but I'll explain it in less vulgar, easier to understand terminology here.

I'll call her Anna. She is a teenaged alcoholic who ...
Forum: Anxiety and Stress June 23rd 2010, 02:49 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 800
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: I'm not getting better after all? (Violence, Isolation)

Okay well...I don't actually need this thread anymore. :P It was more of a vent because I felt better about it after talking to some friends. I'd delete it but it won't let me.
Forum: Anxiety and Stress June 22nd 2010, 12:50 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 800
Posted By CageCardinal
I'm not getting better after all? (Violence, Isolation)

WARNING: There will be language.

I was just reflecting this morning on how I seemed to be getting better. I'm getting over old fears...(like my rollercoaster one, I can watch scary movies, stay...
Forum: Why Me? March 30th 2010, 01:14 AM
Replies: 1
Triggering (SH): Homesick, Hurt, Lost.
Views: 540
Posted By CageCardinal
Exclamation Homesick, Hurt, Lost.

So tomorrow is my sixteenth birthday. Big one. Yeah. I don't feel excited.

I had the party, it was really fun, great. Saw family, got presents early, and all that. It was quite nice. But now it's...
Forum: Self Harm December 10th 2009, 03:02 AM
Replies: 5
Triggering (SH): Alternate Alternatives
Views: 837
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: Alternate Alternatives

Let me just give my two-cents and say that I thought this post was blunt yes but not cold at all. I actually really respect you, Socrates, for giving your honest answer. This is the sort of answer I...
Forum: Self Harm December 8th 2009, 01:11 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,021
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: Has anyone else had this?

Well, here's something really bloody weird.

I have cut my wrists, arms and legs but I only ever cut my breasts or chest now - and that is where I feel my urges.
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 28th 2009, 08:01 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 531
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: Just a thought:Blind Love

Amen! Lol. I agree with your post completely. I've been in bad relationships and honestly, I realize how important it is to feel happy and satisfied in a relationship, and to receive equal respect...
Forum: Self Harm November 26th 2009, 11:48 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 716
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: Should I?

Hi there :)

I've been cutting for three years, and like you, I took a break of time where I didn't self harm at all. I used to see a therapist and I didn't like her so I left, and never went back...
Forum: Self Harm November 26th 2009, 11:34 PM
Replies: 5
Triggering (SH): Deep enough...
Views: 854
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: Deep enough...

I am the same way as you. Recently I cut deeper than ever before and I wasn't even really triggered, it just happened.

Honestly, it doesn't matter how deep it is, it's still self harm and it's...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 26th 2009, 11:25 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,741
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: Lust over love?

Great answer :) I'm experiencing some confusion myself...

I feel heavy emotional connection to my best friend but...not a lot of lust. But I get jealous when he's with his girlfriend and I miss...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 25th 2009, 11:23 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,741
Posted By CageCardinal
Lust over love?

I hope this hasn't been asked before :P

Do you think a relationship can survive if there are more emotional connections/feelings than lust? How important is physical or sexual attraction?
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 24th 2009, 11:59 PM
Replies: 15
Male Advice Preferred: Phone calls!
Views: 910
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: Phone calls!

Thanks for all your answers guys and dolls XD
Forum: Mental Health November 23rd 2009, 11:07 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 611
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: Am I Overreacting?

I don't think you're overreacting. I struggle with the same thing (lack of freedom), and I'm sure other teenagers do. You're not alone on this one.

I'm not exactly sure how to advise you - I have...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 23rd 2009, 09:04 PM
Replies: 15
Male Advice Preferred: Phone calls!
Views: 910
Posted By CageCardinal
Re: Phone calls!

Yeah. :/ Texting is fine but it's more meaningful/intimate when you can actually talk - also, you speak faster than you type.

I'll let it slide if I'm not called back but if it becomes a pattern...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 23rd 2009, 08:43 PM
Replies: 15
Male Advice Preferred: Phone calls!
Views: 910
Posted By CageCardinal
Phone calls!

This is sort of a silly question...:P

How do you feel about talking on the phone? It is typically a more girl-like thing to do I suppose, but do you ever call your girlfriend? Just your female...
Forum: Self Harm November 23rd 2009, 01:44 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 721
Posted By CageCardinal
Exclamation Without him, it only gets worse.

I am saddened to say that on November 19th, I lost my shit again.

I CARVED. I haven't carved since last April. [Edit by Lizzie: Removed triggering details.] I just thought about cutting...I...
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