Support Forums Today's Posts Chat Room

Get Advice Connect with TeenHelp Resources
HelpLINK Facebook     Twitter     Tumblr     Instagram    Hotlines    Safety Zone    Alternatives

You are not registered or have not logged in

Hello guest! (Not a guest? Log in above!)

As a guest on TeenHelp you are only able to use some of our site's features. By registering an account you will be able to enjoy unlimited access to our site, and will be able to:

  • Connect with thousands of teenagers worldwide by actively taking part in our Support Forums and Chat Room.
  • Find others with similar interests in our Social Groups.
  • Express yourself through our Blogs, Picture Albums and User Profiles.
  • And much much more!

Signing up is free, anonymous and will only take a few moments, so click here to register now!

Showing results 1 to 40 of 392
Search took 0.02 seconds.
Search: Posts Made By: asyoulikeit
Forum: General January 8th 2011, 04:57 AM
Replies: 59
Views: 2,014
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: Why did you join TH?

My best friend at the time was all happy about the site being back up after a while of maintenence, and I was wondering what she was spending all that time online for. She introduced me to the site...
Forum: Self Harm December 27th 2010, 03:49 PM
Replies: 4
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): need help now
Views: 634
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: need help now

Alright, hun. First off you're not a fucking wuss. Anything and everything can be a trigger, especially if it happens to upset you. Thinking about your parent's reaction to you losing an expensive...
Forum: Self Harm December 27th 2010, 03:42 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,101
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: The butterfly project

I've tried it before, but it doesn't work for me personally because I have problems with guilt; when I was still cutting, if I tried to stop for another person and ended up slipping, I just felt...
Forum: Self Harm December 17th 2010, 02:48 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,153
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: I SH'd during therapy session...

Love...I know exactly what you mean. I still find myself digging my nails in my arms when I'm upset or guilty about something. I quit cutting earlier this year but that instinct is still there and...
Forum: Depression and Suicide December 12th 2010, 11:50 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 584
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: Right back into it...

Thank you both :)

I'm settling for just making sure i'm taking medicine every day and asking those close to me to make sure i take care of myself. Like going out to eat with people instead of...
Forum: Depression and Suicide December 9th 2010, 04:55 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 584
Posted By asyoulikeit
Right back into it...

I was in therapy for a couple of years for depression and self-harm, and i'm still on antidepressants and a mood stabilizer. However, I stopped going to therapy around this year because I was doing...
Forum: Self Harm April 5th 2010, 02:40 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 617
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: I know I should tell but... its different..ish

hey, Achava.

I'm sorry that you've been doing worse lately with this...it's good though that you have a counselor even if there are some changes to be made at the moment. Have you tried talking...
Forum: Self Harm April 5th 2010, 02:19 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 583
Posted By asyoulikeit

So I was really stupid and agreed to go swimming with a few friends of mine later, but I slipped up last night and my arm is burning already. I don't think I can do chlorine like this...but is there...
Forum: Depression and Suicide March 23rd 2010, 04:17 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 384
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: I can't do it.

Hey Taylor.

I'm sorry, but all the advice about telling your therapist how you're really feeling is right. They can't help you unless you're totally honest, and what do you have to lose from it?...
Forum: Self Harm March 23rd 2010, 04:07 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 632
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: Self harm support

Hey :)

I love your idea, and I wish someone would do something similar in my area. You've got the basic outline of the group down, and since you have a degree hopefully that will give you...
Forum: Self Harm February 27th 2010, 07:20 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 566
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: Going Back


The fact that you posted this in the first place means that you still have the guts to do this. You're strong enough by far, and I'm glad you're thinking clearly enough to set limits for...
Forum: Eating Disorders February 17th 2010, 04:40 AM
Replies: 5
Triggering (ED): Skinny going on skinnier
Views: 945
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: Skinny going on skinnier

Hey Edna.

I'm in a similar situation as you...I find myself unselfconsciously pinching my stomach when I'm stressed. I'm also a small-built person. Almost every girl is unsatisfied with their...
Forum: Depression and Suicide February 17th 2010, 04:26 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 809
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: cant handle this crap nomore

Hey Brooke (Brookie is a cute name) :D

I'm sorry you've been having a rough time lately, but I'm glad you posted. Don't apologize; this is what TH is FOR. I am SO proud of you for staying away...
Forum: Self Harm February 17th 2010, 04:10 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,308
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: My Inspiration To You All.

Hey JJ,

I love hearing from ex-cutters on the forum; it really helps me to find a random happy thread on bad days. I'm proud of you for realizing your self-worth, and I hope I can get to that...
Forum: Self Harm February 17th 2010, 04:06 AM
Replies: 6
Triggering (SH): Thursday
Views: 650
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: Thursday

Hi hun,

I'm proud of you for telling your coach about your SH :) that was really brave and the fact that you're shaking about the subject doesn't lessen that. Any move that increases your...
Forum: Self Harm February 16th 2010, 09:42 PM
Replies: 3
Triggering (SH): bio oil
Views: 3,699
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: bio oil

Hey babe.

Bio oil is like alot of moisturizers in that respect, that putting it on open wounds won't necessarily help. Yes bio-oil in general helps shorten healing time and reduce scars but I...
Forum: Self Harm February 16th 2010, 07:29 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 734
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: drinking and SH plus other stuff

Hey Lea,

I'm sorry you had a rough night (and yes that qualifies as one). I know that getting smashed is tempting when you're low, but if you turn straight to SH after getting home I don't think...
Forum: Self Harm February 5th 2010, 05:49 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,289
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: My newest duct tape creaton...

Hey Marissa :)
I love this. I'm glad you've gotten so creative with your alternatives, and you seem to be doing really well. As said before it can also be an icebreaker for anyone you want to...
Forum: Self Harm February 3rd 2010, 04:57 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 865
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: To give into temptation is to sell your soul to the devil

Hey Jessica;

I like your writing, and it does belong here in a way but it might be better suited for the Self-Expression part of the forum.
I feel the same way sometimes about self harm...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings January 28th 2010, 02:59 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 2,841
Posted By asyoulikeit
Corset Piercings

I've been interested in them for a while, and am seriously considering getting one, either on my upper arms or on the small of my back. Thing is, I love REAL corsets too and I'm worried I won't be...
Forum: Self Harm January 25th 2010, 02:53 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 764
Posted By asyoulikeit
Nerve Damage

I got stitches on my wrist a few days ago, and I've noticed some numbness at the base of my wrist. I understand that having any kind of operation on such a delicate place risks this kind of effect,...
Forum: Self Harm January 25th 2010, 02:49 PM
Replies: 9
Triggering (SH): Dear Urge
Views: 880
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: Dear Urge

Hey Megan,

Thanks for posting :) I like this idea. In the past I've written free verse about my urges, but writing a letter directly to it is a really good idea. I like your message, and I hope...
Forum: Self Harm January 15th 2010, 12:45 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 902
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: Its Getting Out Of Control...

Hey Jodie.

I'm sorry it's been getting out of hand lately...but to be honest that's what always happens with this. I wish someone had let me in on that before I started as well. Right this...
Forum: Depression and Suicide January 15th 2010, 12:23 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,912
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: I'm extremely depressed when I get home


I'm sorry that your life changed so abruptly and that your entire family's relationships changed as well. Sudden, stressful events (especially a complete overhaul at home like you...
Forum: Self Harm December 29th 2009, 03:15 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 780
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: Useless

thanks, guys. Brittany, I've been looking for something to reduce my scars for a while but stuff like mederma isn't working so i'm still trying.

Still free, despite more comments. I'm still...
Forum: Self Harm December 27th 2009, 03:20 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 780
Posted By asyoulikeit
Unhappy Useless

I've been free for more han a month now, and I'm still hurting people. My friend doesn't want me to talk to his sister about my SH cause he thinks it'll rub off on her. All of my boyfriends and...
Forum: Self Harm December 25th 2009, 04:00 AM
Replies: 20
Poll: addicted
Views: 946
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: addicted

No one is physically addicted to self-harm. However, it can be psychologically addictive and that's the part that's hard :( I don't think I am anymore...I'm in the process of quitting and while I...
Forum: Self Harm December 25th 2009, 03:53 AM
Replies: 2
Triggering (SH): home alone
Views: 580
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: home alone


I felt much the same way when I found TH. It's an incredible resource, and whatever possessed you was survival instinct :) this was a good decision. Brittany posted some great links above...
Forum: Self Harm December 25th 2009, 03:38 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 681
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: I don't remember...

Hey Caitlin.

That is really weird, but I'm sure ou can find an explanation. First off, have you been self-harming lately? If your dream was upsetting you might have done it while you were...
Forum: Self Harm December 22nd 2009, 04:43 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 656
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: no way out.

Hey, hun. First off, welcome to TH; it's a great place to find support. There are lots of people going through situations similar to yours and you can find strength here.

As for your...
Forum: Self Harm December 14th 2009, 03:15 AM
Replies: 73
Views: 2,284
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: What's stopping you right now?

My scars.
The fact that if I hurt myself, I can't be as good a friend to someone who really needs me.
My boyfriend likes my body as is :)
Forum: Relationships and Dating December 13th 2009, 09:24 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 2,954
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: Can a guy and a girl be just best friends?

I really believed this for a while, and it was amazing; he was there for me no matter what, and we had each other's backs. We know everything about each other. But recently he sent me a love letter...
Forum: Self Harm December 13th 2009, 09:08 PM
Replies: 2
Triggering: Cutting?
Views: 663
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: Cutting?

Hey :)

I know that the urge to continue once you've started is strong, but you need to think about what you would be doing to yourself. Not just the scars you can never erase. The risk of...
Forum: Self Harm December 13th 2009, 05:15 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 702
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: Feels like nothing is working.


I'm sorry you're feeling like this :( Everyone goes through periods like this and for alot of us the alternatives list doesn't work. This is why I try to develop alts that are specific to...
Forum: Self Harm December 13th 2009, 04:52 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 597
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: Ermm..

Hey, Aly.

I think you should only be obligated to tell the truth to people you really trust who will help you, or adults with that responsibility (parents, therapists, doctors.) Friends who have...
Forum: Self Harm December 13th 2009, 04:43 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 504
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: start agian

Hey, Bailey

First off, congratulations on going for that long. You SHOULD be proud of yourself, and you can't forget that. Helpful reminders when you're craving SH might be a list of all the...
Forum: Self Harm December 12th 2009, 12:42 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,763
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: My mom saw the scars..

Hey, Hope.
I'm sorry your mom reacted so violently to your scars...were they new, or old ones? If they were newer then I could understand partly; new cuts are a sign of regression. However,...
Forum: Depression and Suicide December 4th 2009, 01:19 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 607
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: Lack of focus

Hey Beth,

I'm sorry you've been having so much trouble concentrating lately. I've felt numb and been very unproductive before, and it's not unusual. How long have you been feeling like this? ...
Forum: Depression and Suicide November 11th 2009, 09:05 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 462
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: What should I say?


I'm sorry you're feeling like this lately but you have the right idea about going to a doctor. I know that it's scary as crap to think about, especially since you don't know exactly what...
Forum: Self Harm November 11th 2009, 08:57 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 753
Posted By asyoulikeit
Re: Cutting and swimming...

If you're wearing a one-piece you should be ok, but I'd look at your local pharmacy for stuff that will stick in water. Otherwise your best bet might be vaseline for the pain. It's also waterproof,...
Showing results 1 to 40 of 392

Forum Jump

All material copyright 1998-2021, TeenHelp.
Terms | Legal | Privacy | Conduct | Complaints | Mobile

Powered by vBulletin®.
Copyright ©2000-2021, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search engine optimization by vBSEO.
Theme developed in association with vBStyles.