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Forum: Sex and Puberty April 18th 2011, 11:23 AM
Replies: 6
Non-PG13: Help D:
Views: 914
Posted By Xineas
Re: Help D:

Chances are very small you're pregnant. Precum and boxers and no penetration... Very unlikely.

Your late period could be caused by stress, but if it doesn't come at all, please consult your...
Forum: Peer Pressure and Bullying April 16th 2011, 08:08 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,271
Posted By Xineas
Re: Day of Silence

I would've if I could!

I had to lead a team consisting of 12 people... Giving tasks and asking statuses, whilst running left and right, from point to point. No way I could've been silent...
Forum: Sex and Puberty April 16th 2011, 07:11 PM
Replies: 5
Female Advice Preferred: Couple of problems.
Views: 1,022
Posted By Xineas
Re: Couple of problems.

Hey,

Now, I'm not gay, nor a female, but I've had a similar problem, where I would come once and that's all... My girlfriend didn't like it. What I did, was try new things. Just anything....
Forum: Sex and Puberty April 16th 2011, 06:52 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,315
Posted By Xineas
Re: embarrassed?

Hey Nicole,

It's definitely not bad, or weird. Embrace it. I didn't have sex until I was 19. You don't have to do it, just to do it, or just because people say they've done it and all that. Much...
Forum: Peer Pressure and Bullying April 11th 2011, 06:14 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,253
Posted By Xineas
Re: Please Support The Shutdown of Anonymous Cyberbullying Service "College ACB"

I think websites like that should be shut down anyways. What's the point of degrading others and spreading lies and rumors via a website?

Absolutely ridiculous.

I'm all for freedom of speech,...
Forum: Peer Pressure and Bullying April 7th 2011, 11:58 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 939
Posted By Xineas
Re: what should i do???

Hey Lucy,

Fret not, you. Everybody makes mistakes. Everybody. Even I've took some wrong turns and here I am, giving advice to others. Making a mistake does not make us a bad person, although some...
Forum: Peer Pressure and Bullying April 2nd 2011, 05:08 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,111
Posted By Xineas
Re: Right Place at the Wrong Time?

I don't really think it'll get to that point. Everybody's human and even though it's good they take bullying so seriously, you have a good explanation of how the situation went and I'm sure there are...
Forum: Peer Pressure and Bullying April 2nd 2011, 10:08 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,111
Posted By Xineas
Re: Right Place at the Wrong Time?

I wouldn't call it right place at the wrong time. You were at the right place at the right time, it's just that other people were there too early and created a situation you knew nothing about. You...
Forum: Relationships and Dating March 29th 2011, 12:32 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,874
Posted By Xineas
Re: Long Distance Relationship Question -> Meeting

Well, we met online on May 1st, called it an official relationship on May 25, I went there June 28, so that's... say 1 or 2 months. :p We engaged on October 25 of the same year and we're still going...
Forum: Peer Pressure and Bullying March 27th 2011, 10:59 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 2,913
Posted By Xineas
Re: To all those who have been bullied, Do you believe it effected the way you function at school?

:o :( :? *) :'(

That's so sad and unbelievably ridiculous on so many levels... Disgusting how they would even dare to do that.

Boo on them. :hug:
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 27th 2011, 10:35 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 22,680
Posted By Xineas
Re: Most embarrassing moment you've had during sex?

Does suddenly having a 5-year-old sibling next to the bed, without knocking, when you're so :censored: close to coming, count? :P

Good thing we had a blanket... D:
Forum: Peer Pressure and Bullying March 25th 2011, 04:55 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 852
Posted By Xineas
Re: Really? Really? (this is but a rant)

It's so sad... :/ Yet those comments still exist, again and again. Comments like that disgust me. They absolutely disgust me and that's one of the reasons why I dug up this post after 6 days of...
Forum: Peer Pressure and Bullying March 25th 2011, 04:03 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,785
Posted By Xineas
Re: Nerds

I'm a total nerd and I love it. I generally could care less what other people think about me...

Here's a quote I once found...



I think it's highly appropriate. :)
Forum: Peer Pressure and Bullying March 25th 2011, 03:53 AM
Replies: 3
Triggering (Bullying): i think im being bullied at work
Views: 1,524
Posted By Xineas
Re: i think im being bullied at work

Hey,

This is bullying, no matter how you put it. You don't have to let them do this to you! You have values and rights too, even if you're new at your job, even if you're not as good at your job...
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 24th 2011, 06:45 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,150
Posted By Xineas
Re: Relax...

That's great news! Nice to know he's supportive and understanding, that should help you to become more at ease.

Remember: only do something if you feel like it. :)

Good luck and take care,
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 24th 2011, 09:55 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,150
Posted By Xineas
Re: Relax...

I'm sorry to hear that your family has a past like that.. :/

I really want you to stay strong though. I want you to try your bestest best to break that cycle of sexual abuse, by being careful and...
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 23rd 2011, 06:19 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,150
Posted By Xineas
Re: Relax...

Okay, well, can you tell us what it is that scares you the most about it?

There really isn't anything to be afraid of! That's why we have time to get used to a guy, that's why we have feelings and...
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 23rd 2011, 05:57 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,150
Posted By Xineas
Re: Relax...

If you want to relax, even if it's just for kissing or asking someone out, you could try getting a couple good nights of sleep, say 8 or 9 hours of sleep. Make sure that anything stressing is evaded....
Forum: Relationships and Dating March 23rd 2011, 12:20 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 695
Posted By Xineas
Re: Controlling, or just normal?

Hey there,

Honestly, I don't see this relationship working out. This is going to sound really harsh, but here I go anyways: his anger issues are his problems, not yours. He has to deal with them,...
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 22nd 2011, 11:35 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,150
Posted By Xineas
Re: Relax...

Hey Andrea,

Taking the step towards sex is never easy. More importantly, you have to be 100% sure about your choice. Other people can not and may not decide for you. It's your body, your...
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 22nd 2011, 11:20 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,272
Posted By Xineas
Re: Never had an orgasm....

I don't think that's drastic, no. It's completely normal to visit a sex therapist if you feel like it and if you think you will benefit from it. If it's necessary to visit one is a different thing, I...
Forum: Relationships and Dating March 20th 2011, 07:48 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 891
Posted By Xineas
Re: Forced breakup, please help!

Trust me, you're not the only one without a FaceBook account. I got one when I was 17, almost 18. I'm 19 now. My mom never was a fan of it, but once I turned 18, she gave me freedom.

Drama club is...
Forum: Relationships and Dating March 20th 2011, 06:33 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 891
Posted By Xineas
Re: Forced breakup, please help!

Hey there,

I'm sorry to hear you're in this amazingly tricky situation, being cut off from your loved one, because of his ridiculously controlling parents. That's what they are, ridiculous. I...
Forum: Relationships and Dating March 18th 2011, 03:04 AM
Replies: 7
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): I'm not sure what to do anymore....
Views: 604
Posted By Xineas
Re: I'm not sure what to do anymore....

Hey there,

Sorry to hear you're in this situation, but I'm glad you turned here to help.

What I think you should do, is talk to him about it. When me and my fiancée were in some arguments which...
Forum: Arrivals and Departures March 18th 2011, 12:45 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 439
Posted By Xineas
Re: Im new :D

Hey, welcome to TeenHelp! :)

I'm Daniel, obviously... :hehe:

As Amiko mentioned, there are stickies at the top of this forum you can use to gather information. There's usually a sticky worth...
Forum: Education and Careers March 17th 2011, 02:26 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 785
Posted By Xineas
Re: MA application rejected

Hey Joe,

I would say: Go for Oxford. Let your family laugh and be the last one to laugh, when you get the paper saying you're welcome to come to Oxford. I'm sorry you've gone through that...
Forum: Friends and Family March 17th 2011, 10:57 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,513
Posted By Xineas
Re: I feel like a failure

Hey,

I'm sorry you're feeling like a failure. You're really not, honestly.

You have to remind yourself that it's your life you're living, not your mom's. She has expectations, but as you said,...
Forum: Self Harm March 17th 2011, 09:56 AM
Replies: 6
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): She stole my razors!
Views: 1,317
Posted By Xineas
Re: She stole my razors!

Since the original post was from March 7:
Erin, I hope you're feeling better already!
Forum: Friends and Family March 16th 2011, 10:03 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,369
Posted By Xineas
Re: Freeloading Friends?

Oh, definitely happened to me...

It was back in the days of High School, let's say 5 or 6 years ago. Two of my 'friends' were hungry during lunch, but they didn't have any cash on them, so I paid...
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 16th 2011, 07:38 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,232
Posted By Xineas
Re: Why does he do it?

Change? How so? He wants your clothes wet so you'll take them off! :hehe:

Ice can really turn people on if used properly... When you're horny, your senses overwork and when you put ice together...
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 16th 2011, 01:32 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,094
Posted By Xineas
Re: P.M.S.

Being emotional is included in the package... :/

You're overemotional, which is fine, it's normal, but it's known the pill can take care of that in general. All the emotions are usually connected,...
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 16th 2011, 12:49 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,131
Posted By Xineas
Re: help me pretty please! dont know what to do!

You can actually use the fact she never told you anything about sex as a good argument when you're discussing. She's your mom, there's no need to be scared or worried or nervous! Tell her you'd like...
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 16th 2011, 12:22 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,131
Posted By Xineas
Re: help me pretty please! dont know what to do!

OMG really? :hehe:

If that's what she said, you definitely still have a shot at freedom with her.

You can try reasoning with her once you've brought up the topic. Tell her you know about how it...
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 16th 2011, 12:13 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 33,662
Posted By Xineas
Re: Will the doctor tell my mom I am sexually active?

The doctor will most likely ask you, yes, but as far as I know, doctor-patient appointments are confidential and doctors may only share the information with certain people if you give permission.
...
Forum: Sex and Puberty March 15th 2011, 11:58 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,131
Posted By Xineas
Re: help me pretty please! dont know what to do!

You're perfectly fine!

Masturbation = normal teen behavior
Looking at porn = normal teen behavior (yes I know the website says 18+, but really, how hard is it to click on "Enter" or "I agree"?)
...
Forum: Relationships and Dating March 15th 2011, 11:38 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 2,674
Posted By Xineas
Re: Guys paying for girls.

I'm in a long distance relationship, so to get to my fiancée, I have to fly there, or she has to fly here. We always share the flight tickets 50/50 (roughly), but when she was here, she paid for...
Forum: Relationships and Dating March 15th 2011, 01:17 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 578
Posted By Xineas
Re: Long Distance

Put in plain words, long distance relationships can be your best friend and worst nightmare. I'm in one myself and me and my fiancée are determined to stay together, so much, I proposed to her and...
Forum: Relationships and Dating March 15th 2011, 01:03 AM
Replies: 47
Views: 1,850
Posted By Xineas
Re: TH relationships? :)

At TeenHelp, on here, no. But I did meet the girl I call my fiancée these days on a forum... So I know the ins and outs of it. :hehe:
Forum: Depression and Suicide March 14th 2011, 10:16 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,216
Posted By Xineas
Re: Counselling booked- what do i say???

Congratulations on setting the first step! Getting yourself help is always hard at first, since you have no idea what to expect. It gives you the uncomfortable feeling of not-knowing.

Don't worry...
Forum: Technology and Gaming March 13th 2011, 03:21 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 850
Posted By Xineas
Re: Help with iPod Touch!

Let it properly dry for what seems like ages, to prevent short-circuiting the thing. Put it on the heater, behind your computer, anything warm should do, except hot water of course! :hehe:

Good...
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