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Forum: Arrivals and Departures January 21st 2022, 07:06 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 680
Posted By Jess~
Just want to say hello to you guys again

So... hello!

I haven't been on this site in years but let me tell you, it's been wild to revisit and see so many familiar names! I was very active circa 2016-2018. Part of me feared this forum...
Forum: Friends and Family June 20th 2018, 01:21 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 3,941
Posted By Jess~
Re: how to ask my parents for a sex toy

yeahhh i'm leaning towards not talking to your mom about it. maybe instead of asking her if you can get a sex toy, you can ask her if you can open a bank account. that way you'll get an atm card...
Forum: Self Harm May 30th 2018, 05:53 PM
Replies: 20,021
Views: 527,191
Posted By Jess~
Re: Self harm free!

10 hours ish
Forum: Sex and Puberty April 8th 2018, 08:16 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,026
Posted By Jess~
Re: super late period

ugh, i don't know. for a few days i calmed down but i've been reading these stupid comments online where women said they didn't get a positive pregnancy test until so-and-so weeks pregnant. and now...
Forum: Sex and Puberty April 2nd 2018, 08:21 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,026
Posted By Jess~
super late period

usually my period is very regular and lines up almost exactly with my period tracking app's predictions, with the exceptions of the times i've started birth control pills and taken plan b and stuff...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare March 22nd 2018, 01:33 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 3,860
Posted By Jess~
Re: Scared Iím pregnant

you literally only need to be worried about being pregnant if he cums inside you or you specifically and purposefully shove a fistful of it in yourself. even then, you can only get pregnant about 6...
Forum: Relationships and Dating March 10th 2018, 09:48 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,659
Posted By Jess~
Boyfriend wants to sleep with other people

Not even three weeks into our relationship was when this first became a concern. He asked if I would be okay with a threesome and I said I'd be open to the idea. I genuinely meant it, but I thought...
Forum: Self Harm February 12th 2018, 04:35 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,809
Posted By Jess~
Re: Is constant sit-ups self harm?

self harm is all about intent, not the actual act of being harmed. if you're cutting vegetables and accidentally cut your hand, it's not considered self harm. even though you did harm yourself, it...
Forum: Self Harm February 11th 2018, 05:35 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 4,792
Posted By Jess~
Re: advice on cutting a hat?

that helps a lot! i somehow forgot that sewing scissors exist in my very own house :nosweat: didn't even think about that. i'll look into getting some of the seam sealant as well.
thank you so much!
Forum: Self Harm February 10th 2018, 07:19 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 4,792
Posted By Jess~
advice on cutting a hat?

so i recently bought a hat for the sole purpose of cutting a bite mark into it, kind of like in this hat:
https://www.polyvore.com/cgi/img-thing?.out=jpg&size=l&tid=91521126

it's a nice, camo hat...
Forum: Self Harm February 9th 2018, 11:21 PM
Replies: 20,021
Views: 527,191
Posted By Jess~
Re: Self harm free!

365 days!!
Forum: Relationships and Dating February 6th 2018, 05:06 PM
Replies: 4
Triggering (Abuse): Abusing my girlfriend
Views: 1,100
Posted By Jess~
Re: Abusing my girlfriend

go to therapy. get help.
it's important that you realize this is a problem, and i'm proud of you for having the courage to reach out and admit that you have a problem.

first of all, stop...
Forum: Good Days! January 19th 2018, 07:53 PM
Replies: 11,520
Views: 316,743
Posted By Jess~
Re: I'm happy today because...

I just found out I got a raise when the new year began, which I was not expecting at all, and I've been training for the new position I'm being promoted to. I work at a grocery store where we all...
Forum: Self Harm December 5th 2017, 07:51 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,799
Posted By Jess~
does this count as self harm?

god, i'm so mad at myself right now. i've been clean from cutting ever since february of this year.
a couple nights ago i just couldn't take all the emotion, panic, and stress that was flooding my...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 21st 2017, 08:12 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,581
Posted By Jess~
bleeding after period?

so on the 15th, last wednesday, my partner didn't know if he pulled out good enough and he said there's a thing where birth control pills can act as emergency contraception. i'm not on the pill...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 2nd 2017, 06:28 AM
Replies: 47
Views: 7,005
Posted By Jess~
Re: Problems with boyfriend...

oh my god no don't even feel guilty about it not happening sooner or anything. like jamie said, the most important thing is that it's HAPPENING!
please keep us updated!!
Forum: Rape and Abuse October 14th 2017, 10:01 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,330
Posted By Jess~
Re: Getting therapy for past abuse/rape

I don't know about anyone else, but I don't think therapy in general is a very comfortable thing, especially not at first. Therapy forces us to come face-to-face with our greatest traumatic...
Forum: Rape and Abuse October 14th 2017, 05:30 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,330
Posted By Jess~
Re: Getting therapy for past abuse/rape

Hi :hug:
Like Essa said, you can always ask for a new therapist. If you don't feel comfortable talking to him about switching, you could talk to the person at the front desk to schedule an...
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 11th 2017, 05:22 AM
Replies: 47
Views: 7,005
Posted By Jess~
Re: Problems with boyfriend...

my brother had a hormone problem, not like this, but where he started developing boobs because his body wasn't producing enough testosterone and was producing too much estrogen or something like...
Forum: Friends and Family October 8th 2017, 06:30 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,368
Posted By Jess~
Re: Iím 18 and want a sex toy and I want to ask my parents

just because parents say you can talk to them about anything doesn't necessarily mean that you need to. i mean, i know people who would tell their parents literally everything and it gets super...
Forum: Education and Careers October 3rd 2017, 05:07 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 2,005
Posted By Jess~
Re: Are you honest about your mental health at work and school?

at work, god no. i don't think it's really necessary. but at school, i talked to counselors and some teachers about it. it had to be very subtly and like a broad topic, or else they'd have to report...
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 3rd 2017, 05:00 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 7,005
Posted By Jess~
Re: Problems with boyfriend...

don't take any offense to this but are you sure you guys measured it correctly? i know it's very hard to measure a penis incorrectly, but that's the only thing i can think of as to why the nurse...
Forum: Education and Careers October 3rd 2017, 04:55 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,993
Posted By Jess~
Re: First day of work and I hate my manager

thanks for the advice guys :hug:

luckily, i haven't worked with that specific manager ever since that first day, so hopefully i won't have to work with her often.
i actually asked how my mom...
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 3rd 2017, 05:56 AM
Replies: 8
Triggering (Abuse): My boyfriend physically hurt me
Views: 2,059
Posted By Jess~
Re: My boyfriend physically hurt me

i just want to thank you so much for this. even though it's a harsh truth, i feel like it's what i really needed to hear, and too many people are afraid to tell the truth these days. so thank you, so...
Forum: Why Me? October 3rd 2017, 04:53 AM
Replies: 10,120
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 201,489
Posted By Jess~
Re: Screaming thread.

why me

why is it always fucking me
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 1st 2017, 11:16 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 7,005
Posted By Jess~
Re: Problems with boyfriend...

as his girlfriend you have "no business" knowing what goes on with his penis. XD

next step is to get the school involved tomorrow. i'm so sorry she's acting this way.
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 1st 2017, 08:37 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 7,005
Posted By Jess~
Re: Problems with boyfriend...

If you have his address, try to go over and talk to both him and his mom. I know it might be scary and weird, but this is serious and I feel like at this point it can't be brushed aside, just because...
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 1st 2017, 06:10 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 7,005
Posted By Jess~
Re: Problems with boyfriend...

I tried googling for help on this issue and actually came across a few old TH threads with the same problems. in one of those thread's, he went to the doctor and it was a hormone overproduction...
Forum: Mental Health September 30th 2017, 11:03 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,149
Posted By Jess~
"Just need to work on myself"

I think we've all heard that phrase quite a few times before, probably even said it several times as well. I know I have.

But what does it really mean to "work on yourself"? I imagine we all have...
Forum: Education and Careers September 26th 2017, 06:02 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,993
Posted By Jess~
First day of work and I hate my manager

So yesterday I finally started my first day at my first job ever. At first, this was going to be a celebration post because I've been job searching for almost 2 years and have FINALLY gotten a job. ...
Forum: Relationships and Dating September 25th 2017, 05:31 AM
Replies: 8
Triggering (Abuse): My boyfriend physically hurt me
Views: 2,059
Posted By Jess~
Re: My boyfriend physically hurt me

Thank you so much for this. After it happened I ignored his texts almost all day, so of course he got suspicious and eventually he called me. I told him I just don't know what I'm going to do, and he...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare September 21st 2017, 10:58 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 2,878
Posted By Jess~
Re: Pregnant? HELP!

you can go to the dollar store and get a pregnancy test that works just as well as any other one
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare September 21st 2017, 05:29 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 2,878
Posted By Jess~
Re: Pregnant? HELP!

there are times where a man will ejaculate inside the vagina and the woman still won't be pregnant.
women can only get pregnant like 6 days out of the month.

seriously don't worry yourself, it's...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare September 20th 2017, 07:58 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 2,878
Posted By Jess~
Re: Pregnant? HELP!

she's not pregnant
Forum: Relationships and Dating September 18th 2017, 10:22 PM
Replies: 8
Triggering (Abuse): My boyfriend physically hurt me
Views: 2,059
Posted By Jess~
Re: My boyfriend physically hurt me

It's just hard to break up with him because there's good things about him too, even besides the things I talked about in this post.
My number one concern right now is to stay safe and make sure my...
Forum: Relationships and Dating September 18th 2017, 06:11 AM
Replies: 8
Triggering (Abuse): My boyfriend physically hurt me
Views: 2,059
Posted By Jess~
My boyfriend physically hurt me

We had a long 3 day fight over something last week and ever since then things have been really tense and I've felt like I can't even communicate things to him without being afraid of getting him mad....
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings September 17th 2017, 06:05 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 4,596
Posted By Jess~
Re: I feel that my tattoo artiest intimidated me

No it's not stupid at all for you to feel that way! I don't think feelings can ever really be "stupid", it's just the way you feel.
If you are this much in love with this design, do it. There might...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings September 17th 2017, 05:09 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 4,596
Posted By Jess~
Re: I feel that my tattoo artiest intimidated me

You've been making threads about this particular tattoo for awhile now, so it really does seem like it's something you want.
As long as you understand all the risks and understand that it seems...
Forum: Self Harm September 17th 2017, 07:01 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,952
Posted By Jess~
Re: Cutting again because I wanted the scars back?

Hey welcome to TH. :hug:

I'm actually struggling with the same thing right now. Yes, there's some urge to cut and release the pain, but aside from that, I have this deep, unsettling love for the...
Forum: Friends and Family September 9th 2017, 04:03 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 3,982
Posted By Jess~
Re: How to tell my parents?

If it was completely up to me, I would definitely never tell them. However, now my boyfriend is getting pissed because there are times where he'll spontaneously want to go out to the drive in or just...
Forum: Self Harm September 6th 2017, 11:47 PM
Replies: 247
Views: 15,185
Posted By Jess~
Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2

last night i had really strong urges but i just kept reminding myself of how close i am to being a year clean and also about all the bad parts that come after self-harming, like having to come up...
Forum: Friends and Family September 3rd 2017, 06:13 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 3,982
Posted By Jess~
Re: How to tell my parents?

Thanks for the advice.

Yeah I used to think rape was rare too. Or just something that happened to those "other people"... you never think it's going to happen to you until it does. With anything,...
Forum: Games and Things September 1st 2017, 05:52 PM
Replies: 10,271
Views: 337,121
Posted By Jess~
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

you broke me. not just in my heart, but as a person. now i can't give my love and trust to the first person who has actually deserved it.
thanks.
Forum: Friends and Family September 1st 2017, 05:40 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 3,982
Posted By Jess~
How to tell my parents?

I've never actually had a serious boyfriend so I'm completely lost when it comes to this shit.

I started dating my boyfriend last Saturday and when he drove me home from our date, it was around...
Forum: Self Harm August 30th 2017, 04:56 AM
Replies: 247
Views: 15,185
Posted By Jess~
Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2

cutting for me, along with a release, is also a fascination with blood and scars. so if I wish I had that on my arm, I'll draw on myself or just lightly scratch myself so it leaves small marks, but...
Forum: Education and Careers August 27th 2017, 10:20 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 5,468
Posted By Jess~
Re: What would you look for in a school club related to disabilities?

As far as "scaring off" members, I don't know exactly how you're trying to structure the meetings but maybe on the first meeting you could ask just what people knew about disabilities to start with,...
Forum: Food and Recipes August 25th 2017, 01:07 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 2,001
Posted By Jess~
Re: Healthy brownie recipe

I don't know how these taste, I haven't had the chance to make them yet. But I save a lot of recipes from Instagram, and I found a healthy brownie recipe that hopefully tastes good too. :)
...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings July 16th 2017, 12:13 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 4,514
Posted By Jess~
Re: I was reading an article about my tattoo idea being racist?

all i could find about it being "racist" were links to buzzfeed and huffington post so i'd say the majority of the mentally sane population wouldn't consider it offensive in the slightest.
honestly...
Forum: Sex and Puberty June 29th 2017, 04:48 AM
Replies: 3
Female Advice Preferred: Period weight gain?
Views: 1,785
Posted By Jess~
Re: Period weight gain?

yeah, i'm almost 98% sure you're not actually fat.
bloating and weight gain during your period is completely normal and you shouldn't be criticized for it because you have no control over what your...
Forum: General Health June 19th 2017, 04:42 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 5,591
Posted By Jess~
Re: Teeth whitening won't work

i don't know about the gatorade thing, but if you're worried you could always just use straws for it instead, so it doesn't hit the front of your teeth. i'm a coffee addict and that's what i use to...
Forum: Education and Careers May 20th 2017, 04:30 AM
Replies: 6
Triggering: High School
Views: 3,751
Posted By Jess~
High School

trigger warning for referencing self-harm, sexual abuse, suicide, substances, and strong language.

"High school means change, I'm told.
I feel I know myself pretty well at this point,
not sure...
Forum: Education and Careers May 12th 2017, 04:39 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 5,195
Posted By Jess~
Re: I can't believe I'm facing this in College.

First of all, I have to commend you for calling out her bullshit!! I was literally smiling in pride when I read that part, and I think you should feel very proud of yourself as well.

I don't...
Forum: Self Expression April 24th 2017, 02:30 AM
Replies: 4
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): tough luck - a poem
Views: 1,407
Posted By Jess~
tough luck - a poem

trigger warning: discusses rape and sexual behaviors.

you haven't lost it yet?
well that's a surprise.
seeing as how you dress,
i thought it'd be otherwise.

you haven't lost it yet?...
Forum: Tattoos and Piercings April 23rd 2017, 05:32 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 4,688
Posted By Jess~
Re: My tattoo artist messed my tattoo up I'm so upset

First of all, it is definitely not your fault. Yeah, you have dyslexia, okay. But the fact that you have that isn't your fault, so how can it truly be your fault that it affected you at that moment?...
Forum: Sex and Puberty April 14th 2017, 03:00 PM
Replies: 5
Female Advice Preferred: Daily workout while on period
Views: 7,004
Posted By Jess~
Re: Daily workout while on period

Well, what kind of workouts do you do on a typical day? I can't give you lighter workout ideas unless I know how intense the workouts usually are. :)

I would suggest taking it down a notch, but...
Forum: Self Harm April 12th 2017, 12:53 AM
Replies: 20,021
Views: 527,191
Posted By Jess~
Re: Self harm free!

60 days :)
Forum: Relationships and Dating April 8th 2017, 05:37 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,124
Posted By Jess~
Re: I don't think my boyfriend finds me attractive

I think the other replies have covered most of what I would say to you anyway, so I just want to add that a guy losing his erection isn't always because he's not attracted to what he's seeing. I know...
Forum: Self Harm February 5th 2017, 05:29 AM
Replies: 231
Views: 13,683
Posted By Jess~
Re: how are you beating self harm?

Is it weird that I seriously don't know? There's not a particular thing I do to distract myself or stop myself from self-harming..
i just tend to wait it out. to out-will it i guess. luckily, a lot...
Forum: Rape and Abuse January 9th 2017, 04:51 PM
Replies: 4
Triggering (Abuse): questions about male rape victims
Views: 2,120
Posted By Jess~
Re: questions about male rape victims

yeah, I'm definitely not trying to excuse the fact that he should've respected my answer, though I was making out and touching him in ways that made it seem like I was okay with it. it's just hard to...
Forum: Rape and Abuse January 9th 2017, 06:10 AM
Replies: 4
Triggering (Abuse): questions about male rape victims
Views: 2,120
Posted By Jess~
questions about male rape victims

so the other day I met a guy and had a great time getting to know him. in fact, we've been talking about possibly dating, and I do really like him.
coincidentally, we've both been raped before....
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 16th 2016, 05:11 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,456
Posted By Jess~
Re: 16, Never had a boyfriend

if you believe that no one will ever be interested in you, then yeah, no one will ever be interested in you.
it's amazing how much life really is mind over matter.
there's such a thing as a...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare September 30th 2016, 05:33 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,911
Posted By Jess~
Re: 12 Weeks Pregnant

i've heard about herbal abortions, you could research that.
i don't know if that's the dangerous type of self-induced abortions the posters above are talking about, but it might be worth looking up....
Forum: Education and Careers September 20th 2016, 05:56 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,760
Posted By Jess~
Re: talking about overcoming abuse in college application?

thank you all so much for the feedback!
Forum: Education and Careers September 20th 2016, 05:52 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,595
Posted By Jess~
Re: life changing decisions related to college and moving

it would be ideal to visit him a few times, but we send in college applications in november and that's not enough time to do that.. especially since my parents have no idea about him and would freak...
Forum: Education and Careers September 17th 2016, 06:43 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,595
Posted By Jess~
life changing decisions related to college and moving

so i'm currently in my senior year of high school, so of course everyone everywhere is cramming college and majors and real life and the future down my throat at any chance they get. ugh.
...
Forum: Education and Careers September 5th 2016, 11:04 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,760
Posted By Jess~
talking about overcoming abuse in college application?

in my english class we're working on practicing writing college essays and stuff, since we're going to be applying in only a few more months.
we're responding to a few different questions that we...
Forum: Self Expression September 3rd 2016, 11:42 PM
Replies: 4
Triggering (Abuse): remembering it -- a poem
Views: 1,267
Posted By Jess~
remembering it -- a poem

sweet nothing's
empty "i love you's"
childish butterflies in a kiss.
those are the things i should've remembered,
looking back on all of this.

awful school dance
ditching our classes ...
Forum: Self Expression September 3rd 2016, 07:13 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,478
Posted By Jess~
Re: if you can live again - a poem

thank you guys so much for the awesome feedback~! :D it really means a lot.
Forum: Self Expression August 24th 2016, 02:39 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,478
Posted By Jess~
if you can live again - a poem

it's a scary thing to have your heart broken;
the first time, especially.
or maybe it's the 3rd time that truly stings the worst
(because no, the third time is not always a charm.)
or maybe...
Forum: Friends and Family August 22nd 2016, 03:57 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,512
Posted By Jess~
Re: REALLY annoying girl at school

well in my opinion, despite how "annoying" and "awkward" and "weird" she is, you're being pretty freaking harsh on her.

as the users above have said, you don't know what goes on behind closed...
Forum: Self Harm August 22nd 2016, 03:47 AM
Replies: 20,021
Views: 527,191
Posted By Jess~
Re: Self harm free!

61 days... soon to be 0, i'm afraid. :c
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 31st 2016, 04:09 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,620
Posted By Jess~
Re: My Girlfriend and I are in love, but my physical wants are causing problems

in addition to everything everyone else has already said, which is fantastic advice by the way, i just wanted to say that i respect and appreciate you so much for respecting her boundaries and...
Forum: Friends and Family May 1st 2016, 09:04 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,586
Posted By Jess~
Re: So my parents are very strict...

about faking the GPS, i've actually been planning things myself.

if you have a car, park where you're "supposed to be" and leave your phone in there, then either walk to where you really want to...
Forum: Anxiety and Stress April 24th 2016, 08:38 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,991
Posted By Jess~
messaging anxiety?

so sometimes, when i send an email or PM/VM to people (not just on this site, but everywhere else too) and i see that they've replied (just by seeing the "1 new message" in the inbox icon or...
Forum: Self Expression April 23rd 2016, 04:46 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,388
Posted By Jess~
about being a girl - a poem

they told us as children that our body is for more
than simply being looked at for mere beauty.
and now that weíre older they look with disgust,
and are repulsed because our body contains...
Forum: Self Harm April 22nd 2016, 01:11 AM
Replies: 20,021
Views: 527,191
Posted By Jess~
Re: Self harm free!

about 16 hours now.
Forum: Self Expression April 17th 2016, 03:18 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,468
Posted By Jess~
Re: there's a girl - a poem

thank you all so much for the great feedback. :D



i've tried everything, and our friends have tried a lot. actually, one of our mutual friends hasn't given up entirely on her. she leaves notes...
Forum: Self Expression April 17th 2016, 02:28 AM
Replies: 7
Triggering: not sane - a poem
Views: 1,493
Posted By Jess~
Re: not sane - a poem

aww thanks! :hug:
Forum: Self Harm April 15th 2016, 09:17 PM
Replies: 20,021
Views: 527,191
Posted By Jess~
Re: Self harm free!

a week and five days
Forum: Friends and Family April 15th 2016, 09:13 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,107
Posted By Jess~
Re: Teacher Knows and Is Telling Parents!?

i'm so glad it went well for you, and it's awesome that they're being so supportive and understanding of it. :D

when my parents went through my phone back in november, they saw pictures of my...
Forum: Friends and Family April 15th 2016, 06:54 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,829
Posted By Jess~
Re: My parents are way too strict and controlling..

jesus christ... and i thought i had it bad.

dude, i am so sorry you're going through this. seriously, words cannot express how much i feel for you.
there's really nothing you can do to change...
Forum: Self Expression April 11th 2016, 01:23 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,443
Posted By Jess~
Re: they were wrong (until they weren't) - a very long poem

thanks for the feedback everyone :hug:
Forum: Self Expression April 8th 2016, 04:48 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,470
Posted By Jess~
Re: triggering:: self harm -- a poem

thank you guys, for all the feedback! it's very much appreciated. :)
Forum: Self Expression April 6th 2016, 05:04 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,363
Posted By Jess~
Re: it's okay - a poem

thank you all so much~! cx
Forum: Self Harm April 5th 2016, 05:58 AM
Replies: 20,021
Views: 527,191
Posted By Jess~
Re: Self harm free!

just one day.
Forum: Self Expression April 5th 2016, 05:24 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,468
Posted By Jess~
there's a girl - a poem

thereís a girl
in the window
of a big square room.

daydreaming
silently scheming
the thought of reaching her doom.

nobody knows it
nobody hears her
Forum: Self Expression April 5th 2016, 04:16 AM
Replies: 7
Triggering: not sane - a poem
Views: 1,493
Posted By Jess~
Re: not sane - a poem

thank you!! >u< glad you think so.
Forum: Self Expression April 5th 2016, 03:07 AM
Replies: 7
Triggering: not sane - a poem
Views: 1,493
Posted By Jess~
Re: not sane - a poem

thank you~! that really means a lot. :hug:

and yeah, i have a lot going on inside my mind. but don't we all?

thanks again, and sorry for forgetting to put the trigger warning. >.< i really...
Forum: Self Expression April 4th 2016, 04:14 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,443
Posted By Jess~
they were wrong (until they weren't) - a very long poem

they told me that it would hurt
in every possible way there is
to feel pain.
physically.
emotionally.
mentally.
it would all hurt me so badly.

the thing is, i didn't feel the hurt.
not as...
Forum: Self Expression April 4th 2016, 03:33 AM
Replies: 7
Triggering: not sane - a poem
Views: 1,493
Posted By Jess~
not sane - a poem

*
what if they came home
and found me dead.

what if leaving me all alone, out of anger and frustration,
was the last time they remembered seeing me.
well, seeing me alive, that is.

and it...
Forum: Rape and Abuse April 1st 2016, 07:01 AM
Replies: 3
Triggering (Abuse): Is this really rape?
Views: 1,996
Posted By Jess~
Re: Is this really rape?

the definition of rape is basically nonconsensual penetration of any kind. so if she did finger you, then technically it could be considered rape.

however, rape is more commonly associated with...
Forum: Self Expression March 31st 2016, 07:01 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,470
Posted By Jess~
triggering:: self harm -- a poem

i wrote this after my friends found out i was cutting and i had to deal with them making drama and ruining the system of self harm i had going. of course i know that's a good thing in the end, but it...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare March 31st 2016, 05:59 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,696
Posted By Jess~
Re: Scared to be pregnant!

there are some times where the sperm goes into the vagina naturally and the woman still doesn't get impregnated by it.


you're not pregnant.
Forum: Self Expression March 28th 2016, 03:38 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,363
Posted By Jess~
it's okay - a poem

did you ever hate the girl
with the big curious eyes
who tried so hard to make some friends
but was really just too shy.
did you ever hate the girl
who just wanted to love you.
it's okay,...
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 30th 2015, 06:22 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,815
Posted By Jess~
Re: can't please my boyfriend? :/

xD yeah, i know it's kind of an awkward question... just, it had to be asked. i really need help lol and online is the only place i can go for help.


do you have any advice on how to bring this...
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 27th 2015, 05:32 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,815
Posted By Jess~
can't please my boyfriend? :/

hey..

my boyfriend and i have been dating for a week now and we've already done some extremely sexual things. pretty much everything except for actual sex.
i know it's super early, but honestly i...
Forum: Relationships and Dating January 29th 2015, 03:55 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,388
Posted By Jess~
Casual Dating -- is it okay?

Hey guys,

So I was just wondering what your thoughts were on casual dating.

You know, dating someone you don't necessarily have strong feelings for??

Do you think it could eventually grow...
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 26th 2014, 03:06 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,633
Posted By Jess~
Re: How to flirt in high school?

-Extend eye contact, even if it's just by a couple seconds. This won't be obvious flirting, because a lot of times me and my guy friends will hold eye contact to creep each other out or have a funny...
Forum: Religion and Spirituality, Science and Philosophy September 5th 2014, 05:38 AM
Replies: 504
Views: 57,681
Posted By Jess~
Re: Your Religious and/or Spiritual Beliefs

Christian.
I also put "undecided", but that's just because there's a lot of things I still need to work out with my religion.
I'm not very Biblically educated, so I'm not sure I truly understand...
Forum: Education and Careers September 2nd 2014, 03:37 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,505
Posted By Jess~
Re: I go to a Christian school...

No, that is completely untrue. God loves all of his creations, and would never punish someone like that even if he did hate them.

Words cannot express how sorry I am for the loss of your dad. ...
Forum: Games and Things June 6th 2014, 08:21 PM
Replies: 10,271
Views: 337,121
Posted By Jess~
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Please help me. You're always there for me, but that's going to end next year. I need you. You're my bro. Bros are supposed to stick together.
I know I'm quiet. I have problems. People don't...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare June 6th 2014, 08:17 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,138
Posted By Jess~
Re: IS MY GF pregnant please help..Foreplay on 5th day of periods..

Considering the fact that people sometimes don't get pregnant from having actual sex, even without a condom...there's a very, very, VERY slim chance she's pregnant. Like the above user said, she...
Forum: Games and Things April 30th 2014, 04:47 AM
Replies: 442
Views: 10,816
Posted By Jess~
Re: What are you thinking?

CHINESE FOOD!
ohgod i don't wanna go to school tomorrow.
CHINESE FOOD.
does he like me or hate me?
CHINESE FOOD.
i hATE all this stupid homework!
CHINESE FOOD.
why does everyone at school hate...
Forum: Why Me? April 23rd 2014, 12:50 AM
Replies: 10,120
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 201,489
Posted By Jess~
Re: Screaming thread.

GOD FRICKIN DAMMIT. i-i just wrote a whole mofo-ing post to help some kid. i quoted his post and actually bolded certain things and answered his damn questions with novel long answers and...as soon...
Forum: Why Me? April 12th 2014, 06:00 PM
Replies: 10,337
Triggering: Complaint of the day
Views: 254,750
Posted By Jess~
Re: Complaint of the day

I can't stand him anymore. He's scaring me and he's bringing back the memories of sexual abuse and harassment. I think I'm starting to hate him.
Forum: Games and Things April 12th 2014, 05:54 PM
Replies: 10,271
Views: 337,121
Posted By Jess~
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Please. Freaking. Stop.
I hate it when you touch me. And the stupid excuses you have for it. When you held my hands for a "magic trick", but didn't do the same to anyone else. When you crept up...
Forum: Games and Things April 12th 2014, 05:50 PM
Replies: 442
Views: 10,816
Posted By Jess~
Re: What are you thinking?

I've said no to him twice no, why the hell can't he take a hint and stop? Now he's going to "step up his game" and I'm scared, honestly.
Forum: Games and Things March 27th 2014, 04:11 AM
Replies: 10,271
Views: 337,121
Posted By Jess~
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Please don't like me. You don't want me. I love you too much, my friend, to see you waste your time with someone like me. You're a popular kid. You can choose ANYONE you want! Just...please...don't...
Forum: Education and Careers November 20th 2013, 04:34 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,925
Posted By Jess~
Re: Girl at school saw my "cuts"

I guess what's really bothering me is that I was really making a big deal out of nothing when I drew those...see, nothing was really even wrong, i just felt hopeless and lost and sad. Is it normal to...
Forum: Education and Careers November 20th 2013, 01:52 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,925
Posted By Jess~
Girl at school saw my "cuts"

So today I was feeling really down and drew a bunch of lines on my wrist in red pen. In Spanish class, this junior girl saw my arm and asked if I was okay. When I said i was fine, she said that she...
Forum: Why Me? November 16th 2013, 10:16 PM
Replies: 10,120
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 201,489
Posted By Jess~
Re: Screaming thread.

Why?!?
After things finally get better and I get guy friends at school, they get kicked out of school?? This isn't fair at all. I don't like saying this because I sound like a brat, but I seriously...
Forum: Anxiety and Stress November 16th 2013, 02:45 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,298
Posted By Jess~
Re: Phone anxiety help?

I had this exact same problem a year ago. It was so bad that, even if I answered a sales call, when I hung up I'd be shaking horribly and my skin would kinda go cold. So yeah, I had a problem.
But I...
Forum: Self Harm November 10th 2013, 05:43 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,802
Posted By Jess~
Re: Is this Self Harm?

Thanks for all the responses guys!
Yeah, I've tried alternatives in the past. Usually I write a story or journal entry...but I'm not always right next to a computer, and when I write I get blisters...
Forum: Self Harm November 9th 2013, 04:46 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,802
Posted By Jess~
Is this Self Harm?

I don't cut and never will. I'm a wimp and I don't want people to see scars and laugh at me.

But sometimes when I feel the inner tension of feelings rising, I dig my fingernails into my...
Forum: Why Me? November 1st 2013, 05:49 AM
Replies: 10,120
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 201,489
Posted By Jess~
Re: Screaming thread.

I HATE YOU.
I want you gone.
Please switch schools. Get the hell out of my life.
Forum: Games and Things November 1st 2013, 05:45 AM
Replies: 10,271
Views: 337,121
Posted By Jess~
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Dear M.
I f***ing hate you. You knew I liked him, and now you're flirting like crazy with him. I hate you.
Go to hell.
Forum: Friends and Family October 31st 2013, 04:43 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,058
Posted By Jess~
Re: How much does your parents' opinion matter?

Well... I chose Other, simply because...it's complicated. I've never dated someone before, but my mom has talked over and over about boys and relationships. Probably talkin so much cuz she doesn't...
Forum: LGBTQ+, Sexuality and Gender Identity October 28th 2013, 04:34 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,348
Posted By Jess~
Re: Jelly Beans are anti-trans.

Eh. I'll still buy em. Starbucks is for gay rights, don't see any homophobes stop gettin coffee.
Forum: Mental Health October 14th 2013, 04:40 AM
Replies: 372
Views: 29,033
Posted By Jess~
Re: Do you have a mental illness?

I'd bet money I have a LOT of things I could be diagnosed with. But, when I brought up mental illnesses in the past, my mom shot me down. She refuses to even think that her children could ever have...
Forum: Education and Careers October 13th 2013, 04:27 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 2,063
Posted By Jess~
Re: School bans footballs, baseballs, cartwheels and tag

I picked up on that too. xD not sure if it was a mistake, or done purposefully to show that the majority of Americans can no longer even do simple grammatical things...? If that makes sense. Idk.
Forum: Education and Careers October 13th 2013, 04:25 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 2,063
Posted By Jess~
Re: School bans footballs, baseballs, cartwheels and tag

Aww. Did some fat kid whine his britches off when he fell flat on his face?
Get it right America. Everyone is obese, broke, and mean. We're screwed.
Forum: Relationships and Dating October 11th 2013, 12:09 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 2,766
Posted By Jess~
Re: how can i help my boyfriend?

Uh.
Well...um...you can't really help him. I don't know much about dudes, puberty wise, cuz I'm tryin so hard to figure what's happening to me out. xD but maybe he just gets way too excited about...
Forum: Peer Pressure and Bullying September 25th 2013, 12:47 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 3,870
Posted By Jess~
Re: Has being bullied altered your personality?

I'm so glad someone asked this, so I can finally tell someone.

Let's back up to meet 12 year old Jessica. She was an innocent, joyful, kind, and caring little girl, who loved everyone. She had a...
Forum: Games and Things August 30th 2013, 05:14 AM
Replies: 10,271
Views: 337,121
Posted By Jess~
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Dude, I love you. Get your freaking priorities straight and forget the popular girl. I've known you longer. I always loved you. Yet you meet her and she's this big Angel? She's more fake than a...
Forum: Religion and Spirituality, Science and Philosophy August 23rd 2013, 02:35 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,726
Posted By Jess~
Re: People giving your religion a bad name

This is so true. I have three atheist friends online who, once they learned I was Christian, criticized every thing I said. one of them is bi, and he finishes every sentence about that with, "oh but...
Forum: Religion and Spirituality, Science and Philosophy August 23rd 2013, 02:30 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,726
Posted By Jess~
Re: People giving your religion a bad name

I absolutely hate it when, any religion, really, not just my own, shove their views and beliefs down everyone's throat. I once saw a car covered in Christian stickers like, "I'm with God! What's your...
Forum: Why Me? June 3rd 2013, 01:23 AM
Replies: 10,337
Triggering: Complaint of the day
Views: 254,750
Posted By Jess~
Re: Complaint of the day

I hate life. I'm not even going to say what happened. But I will say that after all this stupid drama, I came home to take a shower. Before I could, my brothers both decided to crap in the toilet....
Forum: Games and Things June 2nd 2013, 10:51 PM
Replies: 10,271
Views: 337,121
Posted By Jess~
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I love you and I barely know you.
Truth is, I need someone to be there for me. I need a best friend.
Please. Talk to me.
Forum: Why Me? June 2nd 2013, 10:46 PM
Replies: 10,337
Triggering: Complaint of the day
Views: 254,750
Posted By Jess~
Re: Complaint of the day

I'm no freaking help to anyone here. All my posts are crap, replies I actually think are helpful I keep track of. One reply I thought was awesomely written and full of great advice, i saw someone...
Forum: Good Days! June 2nd 2013, 02:15 AM
Replies: 11,520
Views: 316,743
Posted By Jess~
Re: I'm happy today because...

I'm so happy because I made a new friend with someone I thought would never even talk to me!!! And that's a lot for a shy, socially awkward person like me. :J
Forum: Food and Recipes May 31st 2013, 03:57 AM
Replies: 989
Views: 27,820
Posted By Jess~
Re: What you're snacking on.

Unusually, nothing. .-. I'm trying to eat healthier cause I gained some. Ugh, I hate this. xD
Forum: Peer Pressure and Bullying May 30th 2013, 07:37 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,230
Posted By Jess~
Re: Bullied till I cry

I'm really sorry Ashley. I don't really know what to say, but here goes.

I'd suggest you find some new people to hang out with, and stop any contact with those girls whatsoever. If they send you a...
Forum: Why Me? December 7th 2012, 05:30 PM
Replies: 10,337
Triggering: Complaint of the day
Views: 254,750
Posted By Jess~
Re: Complaint of the day

People on my website are making fun of the other administrator and I. I would ban them, but we're getting to be so inactive that we NEED them to keep our site up. :'c
Forum: Games and Things November 29th 2012, 05:46 PM
Replies: 10,271
Views: 337,121
Posted By Jess~
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Dear Vincent,

I can't believe this big game you played...do you know how hard it was for me to stay alive over the summer when I couldn't see you? I was so depressed that I lost about [Edited]...
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