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Forum: Relationships and Dating December 19th 2012, 07:12 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,675
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: QUICK! Which necklace should I get my girlfriend for Christmas?

I think it depends on what she would like. Personally I like the first one, but I've never been into lockets. :p
Forum: Relationships and Dating December 18th 2012, 10:28 PM
Replies: 22
Female Advice Preferred: Girlfriend walked in on me
Views: 1,725
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Girlfriend walked in on me

I'd like to think I'd offer to help but knowing me I'd probably apologise and duck out. :bleh:
Forum: Relationships and Dating December 13th 2012, 05:51 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 901
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Gift ideas for my girlfriend?

Hm, I'm not sure what I can suggest as far as what plays into her interests (given the information you provided), but perhaps you can let your attention to her interests come out in other ways? It of...
Forum: Sex and Puberty January 3rd 2012, 09:04 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 103,763
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Is it wrong to masturbate if you have a pet in your room?

My cat literally stares, so it makes me feel awkward keeping him in the room. XD The one time I tried to ignore it he came and tried to lay on my stomach/chest and killed the mood.

For me, it's...
Forum: Sex and Puberty October 15th 2011, 08:17 PM
Replies: 41
Female Advice Preferred: Why Did Your First Period Suck?
Views: 4,259
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Why Did Your First Period Suck?

I don't have an interesting story of how it started, but 12-year-old me did wander into my mother's room to announce that I had officially become a woman. LOL. XD
Forum: Religion and Spirituality, Science and Philosophy September 8th 2011, 09:30 AM
Replies: 41
Views: 3,845
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Do you/Would you only date someone of the same religion (or lack of)?

I think it would depend.

I'm a very spiritual person. I consider myself pagan and I dabble in Wicca. If I was with someone who could not respect this religion or who was so intolerant there was...
Forum: Pregnancy and Childcare September 7th 2011, 08:30 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,311
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: What are the odds of getting pregnant ?

o.O You can get pregnant more than two days out of every month.

If he finished inside, and you used no form of contraception (condoms or birth control), I'd say highly likely. If he withdrew but...
Forum: Relationships and Dating September 5th 2011, 12:22 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,857
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Interracial dating.

I think that it would depend hugely on the person. I tend to be more attracted to people of the same race - won't necessarily say the same breed :p (I've never been muchly attracted to an American,...
Forum: Rape and Abuse August 9th 2011, 02:17 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 3,326
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: rape or just sex?

This.

You claim you don't remember it, don't remember wanting it/giving consent, etc. yet in your OP you quote dialogue that was stated while it was taking place. You then go on to say you and...
Forum: Self Harm August 3rd 2011, 08:05 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,867
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Even cutting doesn't help...

It's okay -hug- I think I'm just a little touchy at the moment. A book would be good... I know I have a book I recently re-started (I guess I lost it when I was right near the ending, lol, found it,...
Forum: Self Harm August 3rd 2011, 07:59 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,867
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Even cutting doesn't help...

I don't mean to come across as rude by any means of the word, but you have no idea what I've been through or the things that I have done or seen, so I'd appreciate you not tell me you've gone through...
Forum: Self Harm August 3rd 2011, 07:45 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,867
Posted By PlayingPretend
Even cutting doesn't help...

Have you ever hit the point where even cutting (or SH/I in general) doesn't help?

Want to note, too, that I only recently relapsed after I would estimate a couple months' worth of being SH-free. I...
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction August 1st 2011, 05:31 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,651
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Mtn. Dew Addiction?

I once killed my stomach with two 32-oz fountain drinks, an entire pack of cans, and a couple energy drinks (the soda of choice being MD). I was seriously dysfunctional/unable to tolerant anything...
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction July 30th 2011, 07:59 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,651
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Mtn. Dew Addiction?

I agree with everyone who's voiced the opinion of "is it REALLY that bad?" Sure, it's healthier to limit your soda intake, and sure, it's healthiest to cut it out completely, and as someone else on...
Forum: Relationships and Dating July 30th 2011, 07:32 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 769
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Online dating 2

Well if you can pay, perhaps you can help him come up? The only reason I say this is maybe your parents would feel better if you could introduce them to each other.
Forum: Relationships and Dating July 30th 2011, 06:58 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 769
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Online dating 2

If his aunt was willing to let you stay with them, would she be willing to help him make his way up to see you?
Forum: Relationships and Dating July 30th 2011, 06:14 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 769
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Online dating 2

Hurting over a break-up, and feeling as though you can't go on to see the light of another day, seems to be/is relatively normal. Telling someone you'd commit suicide or that you would/have attempted...
Forum: Relationships and Dating July 28th 2011, 08:18 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 832
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Online dating

I completely agree with this and couldn't have said it better.
Forum: Games and Things July 21st 2011, 08:54 PM
Replies: 905
Views: 48,249
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Questions for the opposite sex

I love you for this lmao. I hate those - they really get under my skin - and no one knows/gets why. 0.0
Forum: Games and Things July 17th 2011, 07:49 PM
Replies: 905
Views: 48,249
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Questions for the opposite sex

A, because it's involuntary. I don't feel that people can control who they develop feelings for or who they fall in love with. People can, however, control whether or not they have sex with somebody...
Forum: Games and Things July 15th 2011, 02:27 AM
Replies: 905
Views: 48,249
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Questions for the opposite sex

Intelligence, and not only memorised or trivial intelligence but honest intelligence. Need to be book smart and life smart or I won't be interested. Someone who's stimulating and keeps me on my toes....
Forum: Sex and Puberty June 24th 2011, 05:53 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,159
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Erection Problems,

Well if it helps any, my first boyfriend was almost mortified about it whereas it wasn't so important to me that it happened. It's not like you get one shot and that's it. If it got to the point of...
Forum: Sex and Puberty June 24th 2011, 04:44 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,159
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Erection Problems,

I can't say much for the actual problem, but I will say that for one, you shouldn't be ashamed that you're a virgin, and for another, I should hope that for any woman you're with, it'd be a...
Forum: Games and Things June 16th 2011, 08:04 AM
Replies: 905
Views: 48,249
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Questions for the opposite sex

I think that'd be brilliant, but it wouldn't sway my feelings or sexual desires for anyone. :p
Forum: Eating Disorders June 13th 2011, 05:03 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,053
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Picky Eating Disorder

My mother is similar. She can't eat certain foods based on textures. She can't eat any form of meat unless it's chicken, and that cannot have skin or bones and it has to be cleaned meticulously to...
Forum: Games and Things June 8th 2011, 06:31 AM
Replies: 905
Views: 48,249
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Questions for the opposite sex

If they expect me to carry the conversation. I'm often the initiator and can carry or dominate a conversation where needed but if I'm the one initiating 100% of the time or the one carrying it, or...
Forum: Games and Things May 22nd 2011, 04:35 PM
Replies: 905
Views: 48,249
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Questions for the opposite sex

I'm not a guy, but I can speak from my preferences and from the preferences of my friends.

There's a balance. I don't feel it's black or white, "skinnier" or "fatter," because it depends on how...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 17th 2011, 10:35 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,172
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Dating multiple people at once

There was a discussion on this not too long ago on another site I belong to, polyamory specifically, though the topic of open relationships came up.

Personally, I don't see anything wrong with it...
Forum: Relationships and Dating May 6th 2011, 09:01 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,234
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Dating younger...

I honestly feel that you're being driven a bit by stereotypes here. :p

I don't do drugs. I don't smoke. And I don't drink. I have no intention of ever starting either. I'm not interested in...
Forum: Games and Things May 1st 2011, 08:12 PM
Replies: 905
Views: 48,249
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Questions for the opposite sex

How do I know when I really like a guy? Same as you would know when you really like a girl! For me, it's been different each time. My feelings for my ex took an entirely different path than my...
Forum: Games and Things April 10th 2011, 05:42 PM
Replies: 905
Views: 48,249
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Questions for the opposite sex

I don't feel there is any good "rule of thumb," really. Everyone feels differently about age gaps. :p Personally, it'd take an exception for me to date younger, and I wouldn't date more than three...
Forum: Relationships and Dating April 1st 2011, 09:51 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,183
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Online Dating ?

I've done it twice, both of which have resulted in my meeting the person or I am planning on meeting the person. I was happy with the first, and I could not be happier with the second. :p The only...
Forum: Relationships and Dating January 31st 2011, 11:09 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 756
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Pretty sure my friend is the reason we're not dating, should I ask?

I honestly don't see where it'd be unreasonable to ask. Tell him you respect his decision and you don't want to come across as insulting, but that you were simply curious as to whether or not your...
Forum: Games and Things January 31st 2011, 08:07 PM
Replies: 905
Views: 48,249
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Questions for the opposite sex

It had nothing to do with the person being "hot," but I feel the reason I became interested is because of that saying that girls date their fathers. I had no idea that there were men out there who...
Forum: General Health January 30th 2011, 05:57 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 6,732
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: The doctor won't give me birth control???

I have no clue about the legalities, but at least here, you have total and complete say over whether or not you go on the pill. Their job is to provide you with information about the different types...
Forum: Relationships and Dating January 6th 2011, 02:20 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 745
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Cyber-Dating-Yay? Nay?

I had one. Turned into a physical relationship when he came out to see me and when I went out there to see him. Didn't last, but I attribute that to the fact it was a first relationship and it's...
Forum: Pets October 1st 2010, 04:52 AM
Replies: 272
Views: 32,091
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Post pictures of your pets!

http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs642.snc4/60196_155392821147585_100000306043611_342224_6428867_n.jpg
SUMMER
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Forum: Relationships and Dating August 17th 2010, 04:20 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,588
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: dating people you met online, the good things.

My relationship ended because there was no immediate future (we each have school in our respective countries and neither of us could consider moving for years). It was probably one of the more...
Forum: General Health August 6th 2010, 03:50 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 3,948
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Advice on Medication, would like some advice

I understand that fear. I have a friend whose mother won't let her go on any sort of medication because of the potential side effects, but here's the thing - a lot of the more serious side effects...
Forum: Relationships and Dating August 1st 2010, 08:17 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,010
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: online dating.

I agree with this and Nicola.

The reason my relationship ended up not working out was, despite how much we loved one another, there really wouldn't be a chance to see each other for more than...
Forum: Sex and Puberty July 2nd 2010, 10:09 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,676
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: what is a good site for teaching your child about sex and puberty?

To add to Charlotte's point about there being the odd question, I also feel that talking to your children in person allows for a positive communication. For example, my mother was one who handed me a...
Forum: Sex and Puberty July 2nd 2010, 05:41 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,676
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: what is a good site for teaching your child about sex and puberty?

Is it not possible to sit down and have a conversation with him about it yourself?
Forum: Sex and Puberty July 2nd 2010, 03:17 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 5,677
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: First time no erection

Eh, I see getting intoxicated beforehand having very adverse affects. There's a lot that could go wrong such as not being as in tune to her needs (if she tells you to go slower, to be more gentle,...
Forum: Loneliness June 28th 2010, 03:42 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,685
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Depressed and lonely when apart

I'm in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend of a year - he's in England - so I can understand where you're coming from. It's difficult, being able to see your significant other all of three...
Forum: Sex and Puberty April 9th 2010, 09:26 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 111,937
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Do girls watch porn?

I do. I'm one of the girls that watches more porn than her fella. :bleh: I masturbate more often too. *)
Forum: Self Harm March 22nd 2010, 11:21 PM
Replies: 20,273
Views: 547,810
Posted By PlayingPretend
Re: Self harm free!

110 days. :)
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