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Exclamation What are the chances that I'm pregnant? - April 1st 2010, 12:16 AM

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I know the obvious answers: go to the store and get a kit, go to the doctors, etc but first, here's the situation:

So about 4 weeks ago, me and my boyfriend were messing around and I was on top of him, so our pelvises were touching but he didn't actually go in. There was pre-cum but again, he didnt actually go inside. After rubbing against each other, he fingered me for a really long time and it was really deep. Is it possible that he pushed the pre-cum in and voila, pregnant??

The last couple of days I've noticed my boobs were sore as HELL, around the nipple. And I know the next question is going to be "When was your last period?" But the thing is....I haven't had a period in the last 10 months, why? because i was on birth control and it messed me up bad, so i stopped taking it ten months ago, and ever since i haven't had a period. which makes this really confusing as shit.

So I would just like peoples' advice because I tried looking up whether or not precum can get you pregnant but I came up with really mixed answers and the period thing makes this situation even more of a suckfest. So please, anyone's opinion?


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Re: What are the chances that I'm pregnant? - April 1st 2010, 12:18 AM

Lol for the record, this is for a friend of mine, damn I hope my parents dont somehow see it and are like "WTFFFF." But still, advice would be so appreciated


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Re: What are the chances that I'm pregnant? - April 1st 2010, 04:37 AM

well the chances of getting pregnant that way are suuuuuper slim so i wouldnt be too worried. get a test and regardless of what it says you should go and see a doctor since you havent had a period in so long. there could be a more serious problem. good luckk


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Re: What are the chances that I'm pregnant? - April 1st 2010, 05:09 AM

Hey there,

The chances of getting pregnant from pre-cum are very slim. However, there IS that chance. While I would not worry too much, I strongly suggest that you get a pregnancy test, just to be safe.

Also, as stated above, you should probably see your doctor about your missed periods. It is extremely unhealthy for the female body to go without menstruation for so long. Remember, maybe one form of birth control did not work for you, but there are many brands of pills and many other forms.

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Re: What are the chances that I'm pregnant? - April 1st 2010, 05:14 AM

You can get pregant from pre-cum. Again very low chance of it happening.
And with a normal period, my breasts get really sore.
But with the birth control thing, then that makes it complicated.
Either way, it's hard to tell for sure.
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Re: What are the chances that I'm pregnant? - April 1st 2010, 10:49 PM

Scientific studies have shown that pre-ejaculate fluid can actually have a higher sperm concentration than the ejaculated semen itself, so the possibility that conception can occur from it definitely exists.
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Re: What are the chances that I'm pregnant? - April 1st 2010, 11:11 PM

I highly doubt it unless he got actual cum, such as his sperm on his fingers and hadn't washed his hands or wiped the cum off with a tissue or anything, and then fingered you right after. The chances of you being pregnant are very slim, and most birth controls do really mess up your period so that's probably why you have not gotten your period. But since you stopped taking it, your boobs could be sore because the period could be arriving soon.
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Re: What are the chances that I'm pregnant? - April 4th 2010, 02:43 PM

There's not a big chance that you're pregnant, I had a similar experience once and took the mornin after pill just in case, but I don't think I needed to. It's unlikely. However, going to your local GP about your periods would be a good idea x
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Re: What are the chances that I'm pregnant? - April 5th 2010, 08:48 PM

There's always a chance, wether its slim or not. Since your birth control has been messing up your cycle I suggest you get into your doctor either way, that way you can take a test and be sure and tell him what's been going on with your birth control and your cycle. Sometimes different pills/forms of birth control react with people differently so its important to find the one that's right for you.

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Re: What are the chances that I'm pregnant? - April 9th 2010, 06:25 PM

Very very slim chance, especially if your friend hasnt hard her period in 10 months. I would suggest going to the doctor, they'll do a pregnancy test regardless and then they can give her a shot to bring on her period.
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