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Worried about own motives over dating a transwoman - July 5th 2015, 10:08 PM

So, I've been flitting around a dating site for the past few months, just casually to see if there was anyone out there. And I come across a woman, who was blatant in stating that she was trans. She is also a nerd and social and had other factors that intrigued me. So I contacted her and we have messaged back and forth a few times. Everything is going well.

But internally, I can tell that this infatuation is different. I can feel that there is a bit more of a curiosity, social intrigue about it versus other women that I have crushed on/dated. I really don't want to pursue a relationship with someone simply to "experiment" on her, or to say that I've had that experience. Or anything stupid like that.

Is this normal and I'm just a bit weirded out and fascinated by the "trans" factor? Should I be concerned and pull back? Should I tell her about this right now.. or ever? Ack!


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