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Re: Worried about own motives over dating a transwoman - July 5th 2015, 11:02 PM
Well, right now you're not necessarily committed to anything. I'd say that maybe what you should do is take a little bit more time to get to know her and her personality. That way, once you start to know her a bit better it may become easier to tell if you like her for her, or if you are more curious.

If you do decide that this is more out of curiosity, I definitely would pull back and not pursue her romantically, but if you find her to be a good person I don't see why you two couldn't be friends, as long as you are friends for her for more than the curiosity.

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