[Philomath]

Hey Chris,

Welcome to TeenHelp!

I am sorry to hear about your friend. Hopefully he is recovering well and will be able to leave the hospital soon.

In regards to your GF, I am with Estell on this. You need to do what is best for her right now even if that goes against how you are feeling emotionally towards her. She has asked you on more than one occasion to give her space so it is important you respect that and do as she asks. In the mean time, maybe you can hang out with some of your guy friends, visit your friend that is in the hospital if he is still there or visit him at home.
Try keeping yourself busy so you do not overthink/obsess about this girl.

I hope that this reply helps. I am sorry if it seems a bit confusing; I can clarify anything that may not make sense.
Take care and keep us updated.