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Originally Posted by Cheetahsdontcheat
I'm really struggling to balance school and having a life and it's stressing me out. Literally all I do is school work and my volunteer shifts at the local animal shelter. I don't go out with friends. I don't text them or call them. I don't hang out with them outside of school. I don't go shopping or to parties or to the movies or have any fun at all. I can't because then I'd never finish all my work. And next year it'll only get worse because I'm going to go from taking two AP classes to taking four or five. I'm seriously wearing myself out so if anybody has any advice it'd be much appreciated.
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Hey, I have trouble with this, too. My major is very demanding and I have little free time outside of it. I, also, am not the fastest person when it comes to studying (nor am I good at retention, so often material requires frequent reviewing).
The way I look at it is that this is only for a period in your life. It will pass. You're doing all this to better yourself so that later on you can take it 'easier' and have more of a life while you're younger. However, it is essentially to balance yourself as well.
Personally, I've found this mostly deals with time management, and EFFECTIVELY studying. Every night before I go to bed, I make goals for myself the next day. I do this to space my work out. When I wake up, I make a schedule for each of my goals with a realistic time frame. I then find an isolated area and complete my goals. I'll typically study 2 hours straight, then take a 15 minute break. I do this for roughly 6 hours of studying (or 6 hrs 45 min total). I follow this schedule Sunday - Friday, and leave Saturday for free time. I also set a designated time that I stop my work. Typically you'll want to stop around dinner time every night. This guarantees free time after dinner to do what you want.
Personally, I wake up earlier. On days that I have off instead of sleeping till 10 am, I wake up at 6. Why? Because by noon I can be done studying for the day. Essentially what it comes down to is developing a habit that works for you. Sit down, write out what obligations you have, and schedule time to study around it. If you have an hour block off between classes, take that hour to study rather than talking with friends.
I think the most important thing is finding an isolated spot. You'll be surprised how much you can get done when you're isolated and not talking to friends or distracted by people watching, or listening to music etc.
Other than that, I'd say one of the most valuable things I've done is setting 1 day a week where I do nothing but what I want. It allows me time to recoup.
If you're having trouble doing this, or managing your schedule, sit down with a school counselor. They will help you effectively manage your time. It's also important that you do this BEFORE you get burnt out. Studying too much can wear you out and you will be less efficient.
I think it's important to realize that no one is perfect. Expect not to finish everything, but TRY to. You don't need to get 100% on everything. Despite this 100% doesn't really prove anything other than that you're good at test taking. It doesn't really prove mastery over the material. So maybe focus on just learning the material, rather than stressing over grades (I don't know if you do this, I'm just talking about from my experience).
As you've mentioned, space out your work. The day I get an assignment, I'll try to anticipate my future workload and divide that workload evenly throughout the week. This way I'm not spending 6 hours on one topic.
Lastly, one other thing I've found that's helped me to some extent is that when I am working on STEM related courses, if I get stuck on a problem, I'll stop what I'm doing and move on to another subject. Your brain tends to work on the problem subconsciously. So if I get stuck, I'll work on another subject for 30minutes or so and then return to the problem. If I'm still stuck I'll move on.