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Angry Bullying After Rape Made Public - June 7th 2016, 08:54 PM

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Hi guys.

As some of you may know, I was raped 4 months ago by a stranger. The police have started investigating 'properly' and are speaking to everyone who was at the disco when I was raped. The thing is, they've mentioned me by name to each person interviewed (around 70) so the majority of the year knows. The same people keep bringing it up around me, asking questions, making rape jokes etc. I've told them to stop so many times I've lost count and the pastoral care person has spoken to them all but they just won't stop. I tell them it upsets me, it brings back flashbacks and body memories etc but they won't listen. They do it because they think it's funny, particularly when they trigger me (on purpose) so they can laugh at me being 'retarded' during a flashback or a panic attack. Is there anything I can do?

Thanks.