[Ambedo.]

Hey there,

As one of the previous users said, it's definitely possible that there is some sort of health issue causing his genitals to be larger than what is considered normal, especially at such a young age. It could be a very sensitive topic to bring up, so I'd recommend waiting to talk to him about it until a certain level of comfort is established between the two of you to avoid causing embarrassment or awkwardness.

If your boyfriend is trying to pressure you to have sex, that's definitely not okay. It might be a good idea for you to sit him down ASAP and have a discussion about what your boundaries are. Whether you're only okay with kissing right now or are comfortable with some parts of sex but aren't ready for others, it's important to make sure that the two of you are on the same page. Also, remember that your boundaries can be changed at any time. If you're okay with something now but change your mind about it later, that's perfectly fine. It's just something that you need to communicate.

If you do decide that you want to have sex with him, have a talk with him about your concerns regarding the size of his penis and the pain that it may cause for you. It might be a good idea to try using lube the first time in order to make it a little bit easier for both of you. I'd also recommend having him go very slowly at first until you get comfortable with the size. Also, it's not necessary for him to put his entire penis inside you, so make sure neither one of you try to force that to happen if it's causing too much discomfort for you. Again, communication is key here, so let him know if something hurts or if you need him to slow down/back off for a while.

Take care,
Sammi