Just be you. That's what my parents and sisters are always telling me to do. And I do that, I am me. But I see my friends and family who are not shy and they are outgoing and I say I am going to be like them in my head, and I try to be like them and my mom says what are you doing, I say trying to be like them or you. She said no, be you and only you because you are an amazing person. But sometimes I wish that I wasn't so shy and quiet. But I don't know how to change. Maybe I am always going to be like this.