Hey all.

So two years ago I dated this person. I was their first. For it being their first few times in bed they were actually pretty satisfying, but the sex only lasted about thirty seconds. We kinda just gradually stopped seeing each other for unrelated reasons (read: depression made us isolate). Anyway, fast forward to now and they contact me. We start talking and they want to try again. The thing is, they still haven't been with anyone other than me and are afraid they'll only last a short time again if we have sex.

I don't have a penis so I don't really know any tips for making this person last longer. I'd like the sex to be longer if possible, but I want to encourage this person and not make them feel pressure to perform.

So anyone, especially people with penises, how can you make yourself delay orgasm?