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Re: What to do? - September 11th 2020, 09:27 PM

Hello Rakesh,

Thank you so much for reaching out to us and it does sounds that you, your wife, and your mother are going through a very difficult time. I hope that your situation has improved now.

I think the first step is definitely taking your mother to a psychaitrist to be diagnosed and treated, then next you could explain to your wife what is fundamentally going on with your mother, what her causes and symptoms are, and that your mother didn't mean to hurt your wife at all. Based on your wife's past experience, it is totally understandable why she felt this way, plus she just delievered a baby for you, so she might feel a little insecure and scared, because your mother's symptoms will remind your wife of her father. Yet the more she knows about your mother's conditions, the less emotional intensity she would experience during her daily interaction with your mother.

I hope the best for you and your family.