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Re: Dating app photos and self-harm scars (TW) - October 9th 2020, 10:36 AM

Personally I think a person can only hide themselves for only so long. Even if you hide your scars, say a person wants to meet you, they'll see them eventually unless you continue to try and hide them. Ultimately it depends on the type of person you're looking for, and remembering that your time is valuable.

We all have different tastes in what we're attracted to. Some people may like your scars, especially if they too have been through a lot of personal things. Self-harm scars are just part of you.

If you're willing to put your picture up, don't be afraid to show who you really are. Not everybody cares about the way someone is going to look. Many people value personality over looks.