[MadelSmith]

Thank you for sharing something so personal—it takes a lot of courage to write about what you’re going through. I can hear how much you love your dad and how deeply this is affecting you. It’s really hard to feel alone in situations like this, especially when it seems like your brother isn’t stepping in to help. Please remember that your dad’s drinking isn’t your fault, and you don’t have to carry the weight of fixing it by yourself.

Reaching out to a trusted adult, counselor, or support group could give you someone safe to talk to and guide you through this. Even if your dad isn’t ready to change right now, taking care of yourself and having support for your own feelings is really important. You’re not as alone as it feels—there are people who can listen and stand with you.