[Moxie.]

Hey,

Starting to date again after getting out of a long-term relationship can be tricky to navigate. It's definitely important to figure out what type of relationship, if any, you're currently interested in. Doing so will allow you to be more honest with the guy you're currently talking to and allow him to figure out if what you want aligns with what he's looking for. In the meantime, it's definitely okay to tell him that you're not quite sure what you want yet, but that you enjoy spending time with him and would like to continue doing so (if that is something that you want, of course).

It's also totally okay that you didn't feel a spark when you kissed. It doesn't necessarily mean that he isn't the right guy. Sometimes, these things can take a little time after getting out of a serious relationship. If you continue spending time with him, give things a chance to develop naturally. It's more likely that the spark will come back when you do.

Take care,
Sam